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Monday, 7 November 2016

Win Stoopido Game From Drumond Park - The Game Of 1000 Silly Faces!

Looking for something a little more exciting than Charades after your Christmas lunch this year?  Drumond Park’s hilarious new Stoopido (rrp £17.99, for ages 8 to 100!) is a downright silly game that the whole family will absolutely love!

Drumond Park Stoopido Game


The point of the game play is the opposite of what you think – the winner is the person who is the only player left without a full face covered with quirky colourful eyes, ears, noses, hats and foreheads!

This fast and furious new game is about as stupid as it gets! Everyone dons plastic glasses, the dice is rolled, and if Nose, Eyes, Hat or Ears come up, the players race to hang the relevant colourful cardboard pieces on whichever player they choose.

As play proceeds, everyone gets loaded up with ever more comical items, for a totally mis-matched look. The winner is ‘the last man standing’ – the only player left with a gap or gaps on their glasses.

4 children playing Stoopido by Drumond Park


And I have one copy to give away to one lucky winner.

Entry is via the Rafflecopter widget and terms and conditions apply (on my competitions page).  UK entrants only and the giveaway ends at 11:59 pm on Friday 25th November.

a Rafflecopter giveaway

For more information and stockists, visit www.drumondpark.com

And for grown-up giggles and to share adult games experiences, why not go over to their ‘Not so Quiet Night In’ blog . You can also find out more on Facebook or Twitter.
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Sunday, 6 November 2016

Helpful Christmas Stocking Filler Tips For Kids And Pets

It's 7 weeks to Christmas Day and as usual I am running late on my self-imposed deadline of 1st December for getting all my Christmas shopping done. No - I haven't even started!

Dog in Christmas hat by Christmas tree


It's not the big presents that pose the problem - it's easy (reasonably!) to set expectations about what Santa might or might not be prepared to lug across the skies in his overloaded sleigh.

But if, like us, you give your kids a Christmas stocking as well as their main present, you're probably familiar with the last minute running round, head scratching and the worry that you've spent almost as much on the stocking contents as you have on the main present or worse, forgotten something really important.

As a child, I had one of dad's walking socks which was usually filled with the same thing each year - an apple, an orange, some Walnuts and Hazelnuts (in shells), a tiny box of miniature liqueurs (!) and a tube of either Rowntrees Fruit Gums or Fruit Pastels.  Occasionally, Santa would go mad and supply Smarties or Chocolate Buttons instead.  There might be a teeny tiny book of poetry (one year I got a miniature copy of Shakespeare's MacBeth too or, memorably, one year we had a cap gun.  My sister and I went through a phase of pretending to be Charlies' Angels and arguing about who was Jill and who was Kelly.  Sabrina was always a bit too scary.

So I suggest you set a firm budget and write a list.  If you've got more than one child you have to make sure the financial value is the same (kids somehow know these things) but here are some ideas. These will obviously vary depending on the age of the child but Caitlin will be 9 and Ieuan will be 7.

pile of prettily wrapped Christmas presents with bows


These lists need not be gender specific of course but simply reflect what my two would like.

You can pick up lots of cheap and cheerful stocking fillers in places like Poundland, Wilko and ASDA - there is no need to break the bank if your budget is tight.

Girls Stocking Fillers

Nail wraps / Nail varnish
Knickers
Gift card (e.g. New Look, Claires Accessories)
Notebook or diary
Flavoured lip balm
Scented pens (have a look in Smiggle or Flying Tiger)
Chocolate coins / selection box
Craft items - stickers, writing sets, crafting kits
Purse / key ring / mobile phone charms
Hair bands / bobbles, glitter spray
Puzzle books
Bubble bath / hand cream / body lotion /body spray
CDs or iTunes voucher
Shopkins / Magiki Mermaids
Fun socks
Skipping rope

Incidentally one of the best presents I remember from my mum was a washbag full of perfume and cosmetic samples - mini body lotions, soaps, a travel toothbrush and a pretty flannel.  You could do the same by saving up the freebies that come with magazines or your hotel toiletries.

Boys Stocking Fillers

Torches, keyrings
Craft kits / tracing paper / colouring books
Pencils and paint kits
Dinosaur cards / Top Trumps
Toy cars
Book marks
Mini Lego sets / Playmobil Figures
Minecraft Guide
Character Flannel (Ieuan's outgrown Spiderman, now it's Star Wars)
Activity sticker books
Character bubble bath or toiletries
Yoyos
Horns / bells for bikes
Plasticine
Paper aeroplane set
Jigsaws
Marbles
Chocolate coins / selection box

And then there are our pets to consider.  Not everyone bothers of course but for many their pet is an equal member of the family and gets treated at Christmas too.  There's the additional stress of what to give the pet who has everything!

You can't go wrong with new bedding, leads or collars, a new food or water bowl, a squeaky toy and some doggie or kitty treats.  But please, no chocolate!

Actually, now I think of it, Christmas shopping is a lot easy for your pet than your kids, isn't it?!

Do you budget for a stocking for your kids or pets?  How to control the costs and what do you include?  I'd love to know.
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Win New "Milkshake! Fabulous Friends" DVD - Peppa, Thomas, Pip, Ben & Holly, Fireman Sam & More

Channel 5's Milkshake is releasing a new DVD via Abbey Media entitled “Milkshake! Fabulous Friends" this Monday 7th November.

Milkshake! Fabulous Friends DVD


This unique compilation of the very best childrens shows from Channel 5's Milkshake features two hours of entertainment from some of their biggest stars, such as Peppa Pig, Ben & Holly’s Little Kingdom, Lily’s Driftwood Bay, and Bob the Builder.

Featuring in this new collection are:-

Peppa Pig – In ‘The New Car’, Peppa's family car breaks down. While it is being mended, they borrow a shiny new one from Grandad Dog's garage.

Thomas & Friends – In ‘The Thomas Way’, Harold the Helicopter breaks down, so Thomas and Duck take him to Sodor Search and Rescue for repair. Thomas wants to show them the sights but Duck isn’t keen. They need to learn to work together.

Pip Ahoy! – In ‘ Alan Loses His Bounce’, Alan starts the day full of music and bounce, until Norman the Snail tells him that bouncing is silly. Pip and Alba organise a surprise to cheer him up and get his bounce back.

Ben & Holly’s Little Kingdom – In ‘Books’, Queen Thistle reads the children a story which inspires a question. They can't find the answer in the magic books in the castle, so go to the Wise Old Elf in the Great Elf Library.

Fireman Sam – In ‘Jupiter on the Loose’, the Pontypandy Pioneers visit the fire station, and Norman ends up accidentally driving Jupiter through Pontypandy. Sam races to the rescue!

Lily’s Driftwood Bay – In ‘Stop That Pudding’, Lily puts her newly discovered set of measuring spoons to good use when Nonna takes a tumble and needs a rest, leaving Salty to step in and cook an important pudding.

Bananas In Pyjamas – In ‘Power Cut’, Morgan accidentally causes mayhem in Cuddlestown when he plugs in too many lights and speakers in preparation for Camembert's birthday party.

Little Princess – In ‘I Want My Treehouse’ Little Princess builds a treehouse, then discovers Algie and Maid are also building one in the tree next door! Soon they are in competition to see who can build the best one.

Bob the Builder – In ‘Lofty Lets Loose’, Bob and his team are building a new giraffe enclosure at the zoo, but Lofty's excitement about meeting his favourite animal gets the better of him.

Wanda and the Alien – In ‘Starfish’, Wanda and friends help a hermit crab to find his starfish friend who was swept out to sea, aided by a giant whale and some important fish.

Toot the Tiny Tugboat – In ‘Toot's Funny Side’, Toot arranges a funny No Talent Show to help Paula the Trawler overcome her embarrassment when she makes a mistake.

Toby’s Travelling Circus – In ‘Ribbons and Strings’, Toby is inspired to create a ribbon-and-strings act in the show after witnessing the havoc caused by Momo and Freddo earlier with a yo-yo.

Wissper – In ‘The Slow Slow Loris’ Sonia the slow loris asks Wissper to help her speed up as the chattering monkeys keep taking all the best fruit first. Wissper decides to enlist the help of Monty the meercat.

Paw Patrol – In ‘Pup Pup Boogie’, Ryder, Chase and Rubble use their dance moves to help repair the tracks before the next train arrives.

There's plenty there to keep your little ones occupied and I have two copies of the DVD to give away.

Entry is via the Rafflecopter and terms and conditions apply (on my competitions page).  UK entrants only and the giveaway ends at 11:59 pm on Friday 25th November.

a Rafflecopter giveaway

Good luck!

More free to enter competitions at www.theprizefinder.com and www.loquax.co.uk.
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Friday, 4 November 2016

New Releases, Free & Bargain Books Link-up Week 44



How are you all this week?  The clocks have now gone back here in the UK and we're re-adjusting to darker evenings. Time to get the scented candles, cushions and throws out!

I love this time of year and it's not surprising that one of the biggest trends in home and lifestyle books is the Danish concept of Hygge. Hygge is the Danish ritual of enjoying life's simple pleasures which they have down to a fine art.

There's nothing better than curling up with a hot chocolate and a good book and you're sure to find some in this week's link-up.

Don't forget that I still have plenty to be won on my competitions page including that Elizabeth Shaw Chocolate Hamper worth £50 and I have some fab children's games and DVDs coming up.

And don't forget my new problem page here.

Happy bargain and freebie book hunting on this link.

Have a great week!

Sharing the Love of Books
Enjoy our selection of New Releases / Free & Bargain Books this week

Authors please feel free to add your own books
Readers please free to add your own finds
(any genre except erotica welcome)

This weekly link up is hosted by Beck Valley Books & these awesome book loving blogs...
Monday
 Life as Leels | IrishdaisylovesRomance | Book Babble | All Romance Reader
Tuesday
It's My Side of Life | Celticlady's Reviews | First Time Mommy Adventures 
Wednesday
Beck Valley BooksCinnamon Hollow Reviews
Thursday
Miki's Hope | Nicki's Nook
Friday
Ebook Addicts | I Love Romance | Mother Distracted | Colorimetry | The Ultimate Fan Blog
Saturday
Totally Addicted to Reading | 3 Partners in Shopping | Angie's Angle I Create Purty Thangs | Wishful Endings
Sunday
Lynchburg Mama | LibriAmoriMieiAli - The Dragon Slayer | Wondermom WannabeDeal Sharing Aunt | Rambling Reviews 


For Pre-orders post - PRE-ORDER / genre / title /author
For New Releases post - NEW / genre / title / author
For Free Books post - FREE / genre / title / author / end date 
For Bargain Books post - SALE / price / genre / title / author / end date
(Strictly no Erotica please.  Steamy romance is fine but watch those covers people, incase any underage child is viewing it!)

Click here for this weeks awesome selection!
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My Guide To Avoiding On-Hold Telephone Hell

Have you ever wondered how much time we spend waiting for our telephone calls to be dealt with?  As a nation, we Brits are no strangers to queuing but with the increase in call centres and automated telephone systems, there's no such thing as a 'quick call' anymore.

Red telephone handset and cord
There's nothing worse than being kept waiting on the phone!
And it's probably no surprise to learn that "your call is valued" was recently voted the most irritating phrase to hear whilst waiting for your telephone call to be dealt with.

The survey by Which? found that the most useful information was

* Being told average call waiting times (33% of respondents)
* Being informed of a caller's position in the queue (32%)
* An offer of being called back (30%)

The preferred choice of backing track was classical music - although brace yourself - I am already hearing reports of Christmas music starting to irritate callers across the UK.

Anyone who has braved the telephone system at HMRC (average waiting time 47 minutes!) will know the combination of hope and annoyance well.  You daren't put the phone down because what if your call is about to be miraculously answered?

It certainly doesn't feel as if your call is valued, does it?

So is there anything we can do?

There are now online companies who will help you find the most appropriate telephone number for you in the particular area you are looking for - for example, banks, broadband and mobile providers and utlities, or government departments such as the Department for Work and Pensions.  Who wants to wait for hours on end to sort out their benefit claims or queries?

Or you could try these:-

* have all the information to hand

You might find it useful to start a home file for, say, your internet or utility provider with a list of direct lines and contact names to have to hand before you phone.

On the front of the file, I would place a large sticker which has your account number so that you don't have to go routing around to find it.

It's also worth keeping a list on your PC (mine is handwritten in a book for safety) of internet account passwords - tip - don't make your password "password" or if it's numeric "0000"!

For example, when I contact my domain name provider, not only do I have to give a customer number and a password but I also need to give them a 4 digit pin code.

Many banks will have 'memorable questions' as part of their online security so it is worth recording your answers to these as well.

* Call off peak 

It's often pointless trying to call first thing Monday morning or last thing on Friday afternoon unless you want your position in the queue to be closer to 10 than 1.

* Know who you want to speak to

Is there a contact name with their direct telephone number on any correspondence?

* Find out how much your call is likely to cost.  

Here's Ofcom's guide to phone charges.  Numbers starting with 0500, 0800 and 0808 are free but other business numbers starting with 08 are chargeable business numbers.

It's worth finding out how much your call is likely to charge you before picking up the phone!

* Go online

Sometimes it's quicker to route your query via a website and lots of companies now offer online chat or a virtual assistant who can answer basic queries. You'll also save on heavy call charges (see above).

* Email instead

If you do have any correspondence, is there an email address you could use - ideally to a named contact rather than info@company.com?

I sometimes think an email is more likely to be opened and actioned quickly simply because bosses can monitor their employees inboxes to check that work is being done.

And what about the calls made to us from companies?

I am sure you are familiar with the automated dialling systems which plague us with silent calls or those recorded messages about insulation schemes or PPI (probably soon to be replaced with information about reclaiming your bank overdraft charges).

You could register with the Telephone Preference Service which is free.  This is the official central opt out register where you can record your preference not to receive unsolicited sales or marketing calls.

It is a legal requirement that all organisations (including charities, voluntary organisations and political parties) do not make such calls to numbers registered on the TPS unless they have your consent to do so.

But, whilst our data is still being sold from the Electoral Roll and companies where we have not 'opted out' of allowing our personal information to be used, (DVLA for example), relying on the TPS alone is unlikely to stop the deluge of cold calls.

If you are a carer or are looking after your elderly parents, you may want to consider a new scheme which aims to protect the elderly from cold calls by creating a trusted callers list and then having receptionists block any calls not on this list.  The scheme does come with an additional cost of £20 per month and the need for an adapted phone.

Until many UK companies get to grips with call-handling, consumers are going to have to get savvy and plan their calls with military precision.

And pray that we're not listening to "Fairytale of New York" from now until Boxing Day.
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Thursday, 3 November 2016

Starting A Blog? Here's What I Invested In

It seems like everyone is starting a blog these days - they are everywhere! One of the reasons for this is that it is possible to earn at least a decent supplementary income from your writing - and some bloggers manage to make blogging their full time job.



Part of the appeal is that blogging has few start-up costs - you just need a laptop, an idea of what you are going to write about and your target audience.

I started my blog for free on Google's Blogger.com and I've been there ever since, although many bloggers prefer the versatility of Wordpress.

It's amazing, actually when I think about the skills I have had to learn to blog.  Many of these were already under my belt from my background in marketing but here's just some of the things that bloggers do daily.  It's easy for many newbie bloggers to assume you write a few articles and then are inundated with freebies but it's really not like that!

Core blogging skills

* writing, editing, proof-reading
* market research - particularly in to the keywords which are likely to drive readers to your site
* photography and photo-editing
* video production
* branding and design
* accounting and tax (if you earn money from your blogging you must declare it to HMRC
* social media - creating and maintaining your accounts and using them to promote your blog posts
* pitching to and working with brands
* negotiating your fees
* advertising and PR
* statistical analysis - you need to understand where your traffic comes from, who is driving it and why

As you can see, blogging is not dissimilar to running a full time marketing department.

There are costs involved though, if you want to improve the professionalism of your site.  These are the things I have invested in.

* a decent laptop with a good sized screen and keyboard.  I'm a trained touch-typist (from my personal assistant days) and I can't type quickly on a teeny tiny keyboard.

* a custom URL from Godaddy.com. Blogger will give you a blog address which has .blogspot in which lots of PR companies don't like. Buying a custom URL - mine is motherdistracted.co.uk - allows you to look more professional whilst still retaining the security of having someone else host your site.

* a subscription to Buffer - an application which allows you to schedule your social media posts.  I love Buffer because it is easy to use but there are a number of rival apps like Hootsuite.

* a subscription to Boardbooster - an application which will repin your pins to Pinterest and shuffle your boards for you to gain maximum exposure.

* a subscription to Picmonkey - a genius photo editing application which allows you to edit individual photos and create collages.  Some bloggers prefer a rival application called Canva

* business cards (I got mine from Vistaprint) to give out a bloggers conferences and meet-ups

* a mobile phone with a decent camera - lots of bloggers go the whole hog and invest in expensive cameras but I've managed to get by with a smartphone.  The Husband gave me his iPhone 6S when he upgraded recently and I love it.

It's easy to get carried away with all the bells and whistles and there are several really good books on blogging, such as The Million Dollar Blog by Natasha Courtenay-Smith or The Ultimate Blogger To-Do List by Dana Fox and endless courses about all aspects of a blogger's craft to tempt you to part with your pennies.

But if you are just starting out with very little cash to spare, you can find lots of support in an excellent Facebook group - UK Bloggers.  You'll find bloggers are a friendly bunch who are always generous with their advice. Before you shell out, just ask for their very valuable advice - many of them have been blogging for years and are highly experienced.

Talking of which, if there is anything you'd like to ask, feel free to pop a question in the comments box below.

If you are thinking of taking the plunge with your own blog - try it!  You may never look back.
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Keeping Warm And Cozy With Style This Autumn

The summer is well and truly over. We have already had a few cold days, and can expect many more, so now is a good time to update your autumn wardrobe with some warm clothing.



Right now, there are some great deals available, so it is a good time to buy some of the more expensive items like boots and coats. If you can wait a week or so, you may be able to pick these items up in the Black Friday sales. Many retailers drop their prices by more than 50%, but just for one day.

Stylish long coats

This year, long coats are back in vogue. If you are looking for a smart coat for the commute, you will easily find what you are looking for. Most designers have opted for single-breasted cuts, which look particularly smart.

There are also some nice casual styles available. Pared down parkas and classically cut bomber jackets are available in most stores, as well as duffle coats with a modern twist.

Stylish boots

When it comes to footwear, low heels are still in fashion. There are high heels available, but they are mainly party shoes. Boots wise, full length is the way most designers have decided to go. Most are close fitting, and very chic, so they look great with the classically cut, long coats that are available, this year.

Jumpers

Given the changeableness of the weather, layers are the best option. Having a cardigan or jumper available to put on over the top of a long-sleeved blouse or t-shirt is always handy.

There are some nice looking women’s jumpers available online, and on the High Street. Baggier cuts seem to be all the rage, this year. But, if that is not your style, do not worry because there is also closer fitting knitwear available.

Lengthwise, the majority of the jumpers are mid calf, which means they are very flattering, as well as cosy. If you want something a little different, there are also some nice looking crocheted jumpers out there.


Nightwear

The fact that the weather is colder is not all bad. Getting everybody into their pyjamas early, snuggled up on the sofa with some snacks, and watching a movie together is a great way to while away the evening.

When it comes to women’s pyjamas, there is no shortage of choice. Onesies are not as popular as they once were, but most designers have included at least one in their nightwear collection.

Loose fitting pyjamas that are made from natural breathable fabrics, like cotton, are everywhere you look. But, there are still some nice silky, lingerie style nightdresses, as well as shortie sets on sale.

Christmas presents

Clothing always makes great Christmas presents. If you have a friend, or family member, on a tight budget, buying them a pair of boots or a good coat is a great idea. The chances are they would not be able to afford to buy something like that new themselves. As a result, that type of present is especially welcome.
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