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Monday, 25 July 2016

Family Friendly Fun In Amsterdam

There's no denying that Amsterdam is a beautiful city.  It is one of the largest historical city centres in Europe and has over 50 museums.  You may know Amsterdam best for its vibrant nightlife but there is plenty to do on your family holiday.

Here are just a few of the things on our family bucket list.

Museums

Popular with kids is the Tropenmuseum (the Tropical Museum) where the displays (art, photographs, music and film) depict the lives of cultures outside of the West, focusing on the tropics and subtropics.

The Nemo Science Museum
Or there is Amsterdam's science museum, Nemo which is best suited for children over 6 and features interactive science exhibits, experiments & shows in a huge, waterfront, boat-like museum.

Amsterdam is a great destination to introduce your children to culture, both artistic and literary.  You could visit the Van Gogh museum which displays over 200 of his works, including landscapes, still lifes and drawings and letters. These are displayed alongside works from Van Gogh's contemporaries so that visitors get real insights into his life and work.

Vincent Van Gogh - A Self Portrait
And of course perhaps the most famous museum is the Anne Frank House. Perhaps more suited to older children, nevertheless, the story told by Jewish wartime diarist Anne in her diary is one of the most terrible and moving in the 20th century and to see the home in which she was imprisoned brings to life the ordeal she and her family endured.

Anne Frank House
Canals & Boats

Experiencing Amsterdam by boat will give you a different perspective on the city. There are loads of different types of boat tours - there's an Amsterdam Pizza Tour or an Amsterdam Burger Tour or you could take an evening canal cruise.  There's even a children's party cruise on the 'Pancake Boat' where the kids make and decorate their own pancakes.



Bicycles

There are more bikes in Amsterdam than there are people - over 800,000 bicycles! Cycling is a way of life in Amsterdam and the city has a great network of bike paths and cycle routes. Cycling is also a great way to explore the city.

Image credit:  Anna & Michal
You can hire bikes called 'bakfiets’ (cargo bike) which have a wooden compartment in which your kids can sit.

What a cute way of sightseeing!
Foodie Treats

There is a vast choice of restaurants featuring international cuisine and street markets a plenty where you can sample local fare such as Stroopwafels or Poffertjes.

Stroopwafels are chewy syrup waffles first made in the town of Gouda in the Netherlands during the 18th century. They are made from two thin layers of batter with a sticky syrup filling in the middle. In Amsterdam you can find freshly made stroopwafels at Amsterdam street markets like Albert Cuypmarkt and Noordermarkt. Stroopwafels are a great accompaniment to a cup of coffee or tea and come in various sizes. The most popular size fits perfectly as a lid on your coffee which softens the cookie and melts the syrup. Yum!

Poffertjes are small, fluffy pancakes made with yeast and buckwheat flour found at outdoor markets and on many street corners in winter. They are typically served topped with powdered sugar and butter. Usually served on a little paper plate with a tiny fork for smearing the butter, they can be really messy to eat if it's windy as the powder sugar will cover your face and clothing!

Image Credit:  Flickr: Nenyaki
Flowers

We all know about tulips from Amsterdam but it's great to see the street markets awash with a riot of colour. Why not visit the floating flower market or Bloemenmarkt. All the stalls are located on floating barges along the canal, which is how the flowers used to travel from the fields to the city.

Fresh flowers are still brought in daily, but these days come by lorry! You are sure to find your favourite flower here, from the traditional Dutch tulip to the more exotic varieties.  In December you'll also find Christmas trees.

It is also very easy to reach Amsterdam with more than 300 direct flights to Schipol Airport which is 20 minutes from the city centre by train.

As you might expect for a major tourist destination, there is a wide range of accommodation to suit all budgets but be sure to do your research to check what is included in the cost of your stay. For example, with some of the family friendly hotels, bike hire is included in the price.

Have you taken your family to Amsterdam?  What sights would you recommend?  What is your favourite family friendly hotel?
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Sunday, 24 July 2016

Reinventing Family Favourites With Branston Pickles & Sauces

Most of us know the name Branston and the saying "Bring Out The Branston".  The original Branston Pickle was always on our table to liven up ploughman's lunches and sandwiches.  My dad was a particular fan and in fact, his pet name for me was Pickle - which may, or may not be linked.


Branston Pickle was first made by Crosse & Blackwell in 1922 and is named after the small village near Burton in Staffordshire. Over 17 million jars of pickle are sold every year and the range now includes relishes and table sauces.

But did you know that you can use Branston products to liven up a whole range of dishes, including family favourites such as lasagne or beef stew with dumplings?

There is a great selection of Branston products to choose from such as the new Branston Sweet Chilli Pickle, Spicy Tomato Relish, Caramelised Onion Chutney, Orchard Fruit Chutney and Tomato & Red Pepper Relish.

You can use these to jazz up your leftovers - for example, you could use up leftover cheese in a Cheese, Spinach & Caramelised Onion Chutney Quiche or how about some Mediterranean Bubble & Squeak Cakes - a great way to use up leftover potato and veg.

Branston's website has a comprehensive range of recipes to try, including five created by Andy Bates, the star of Food Network’s Street Feasts which are tasty takes on the hot sandwich. Andy, who is known for his modern twists on classic dishes, fuelled by his international travels and passion for street food, has created a recipe to complement each flavour in the Branston Relish range.

How about Cider & Fennel Braised Pulled Pork, Mango Salsa Roll with Branston Sweet & Spicy Brazilian Relish or Mushroom & Grilled Cheese ‘Burger’ Muffin With Branston Caramelised Red Onion Relish?

It's a very long way from the humble Ploughman's!

If you would like to try Branston's recipes for yourself, you'll find them at www.bringoutthebranston.co.uk.

We tried Sticky Pork Chops but substituted the Branston Orchard Chutney for the Branston Sweet Chilli Chutney.

Simply make a marinade with 4 generous tablespoons of Branston.


Coat the chops with the marinade and chill for 30 minutes.


The Marinade at work
Then whack in the oven for half an hour while you prepare some rice with the broccoli and courgette.


The tomatoes are added to the chops about 10 minutes before serving.

The result was pork chops with quite a kick and the added veg are great for the kids.


You're sure to find a way to add some extra taste to your meals with the Branston range.
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Saturday, 23 July 2016

The Ultimate Kids Party Planning Cheat Sheet

There's nothing like organising a children's party to raise a parent's stress levels.  As your kids grow, their capacity for mischief and mayhem grows exponentially and what was considered a fun time in the past is now very 'last term'.

Image Credit:  Clive Reid
We've found that the number of parties has tended to reduce, or rather parents can no longer afford to entertain the whole class.  In any case, friendship groups are forming and changing and as classes are split, best friends tend to change quite often.

London-based party organisers Twizzle have created this very useful cheat sheet which I am able to share with you here.

Caitlin and Ieuan are now 8 and 7 and have left the soft play party behind them but I much prefer it when parties are organised at the weekend rather than in the middle of the school week. Plus, if they have too late a night we all pay for it the next day!

The current trend here in Cardiff seems to be either Quasar, trampolining or football, with make-over parties for the girls still going strong.

Kids parties are certainly not cheap and there is no reason why you have to fork out lots of cash when, weather permitting, a summer picnic or winter barbeque on the beach might do.  If you're brave enough to host a party at home you have my heartfelt admiration and if the idea fills you with terror and your child isn't overly fussed on a formal birthday party, why not have a family tea and then spend the cash on a couple of day trips of your child's choice?

Anyway,  here's Twizzle's guide to hosting the ultimate, age-appropriate kids party.  Let me know what you think in the comments below.


The Ultimate Kids Party Planning Cheat Sheet
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Friday, 22 July 2016

New Releases, Free & Bargain Books Link-up 22 July 2016



How are you all this week?  Summer has really arrived and it's been sweltering, hasn't it? Ideal weather for sitting under a shady tree with a book.

The kids are now on holiday.  It's day 2 and we're surviving so far. This afternoon we are going over to our local library to sign them both up for the summer reading challenge.  I'm determined to instill in them the joy of reading a book.  And not a Pokemon in sight.

Here's hoping you have a good week too and find some time for a nice relaxing read.

Here are the fab books on offer this week.  You're sure to find something that takes your fancy.

Sharing the Love of Books
Enjoy our selection of New Releases / Free & Bargain Books this week

Click HERE for this week's awesome selection.

Authors please feel free to add your own books
Readers please free to add your own finds
(any genre except erotica welcome)

This weekly link up is hosted by Beck Valley Books & these awesome book loving blogs...
Monday
 Life as Leels | IrishdaisylovesRomance | Book Babble | All Romance Reader
Tuesday
It's My Side of Life | Celticlady's Reviews | First Time Mommy Adventures | Bound 2 Escape
Wednesday
Beck Valley BooksA Library of Reviews | Cinnamon Hollow Reviews
Thursday
Miki's Hope | Taking Time for Mommy | Nicki's Nook
Friday
Ebook Addicts | I Love Romance | A Bit Bookish | Mother Distracted | Colorimetry
Saturday
Totally Addicted to Reading | 3 Partners in Shopping | Angie's Angle I Create Purty Thangs | Wishful Endings
Sunday
Lynchburg Mama | LibriAmoriMieiAli - The Dragon Slayer | Wondermom WannabeMy Bizzy World |  Deal Sharing Aunt 


For Pre-orders post - PRE-ORDER / genre / title /author
For New Releases post - NEW / genre / title / author
For Free Books post - FREE / genre / title / author / end date 
For Bargain Books post - SALE / price / genre / title / author / end date
(Strictly no Erotica please.  Steamy romance is fine but watch those covers people, incase any underage child is viewing it!)

Click HERE for this week's awesome selection.

And don't forget you can always add some of your own!
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Theatre Review: The Hunting Of The Snark at The Sherman Theatre, Cardiff

Last night Caitlin, Ieuan and I attended the press night for the Sherman Theatre's brilliant new production in association with Alice House and RGM Productions, "The Hunting of the Snark".


Commissioned and directed by Gemma Colclough,  The Hunting of the Snark is a new adaptation of the Lewis Carroll poem which is a tale of adventure, bravery and, most importantly, family. 6 actors took to the intimate theatre space that the Sherman Theatre is renowned for and transported the audience to a world of incredibly odd creatures, songs, fun and outright silliness.

The Boy - Kate Spencer
In the tradition of all the best moral tales, the characters are known by their type or role - with the exception of  Steve, who produced the sound track to the show with the help of a guitar and drum.  There was The Bellman, The Butcher, The Baker, The Banker and his son,  The Boy.

The tale links them all together and they travel to Snark Island to hunt the mystical creature which has been recently spotted after a hundred years.  Do they capture it and take it back with them to sell?  Is the Snark all that it seems?



An enormous discovery is certainly made by one of the characters and it changes lives for ever - but that's all I'm going to tell you.

The staging is simple but brilliantly effective.  At one point the moon appeared and Ieuan gasped.  The songs are witty and full of enough adult references to get the parents laughing and there is plenty of slapstick silliness for everyone.

The Butcher - Polly Smith
The show runs for approximately 75 minutes and this may be slightly too long for very little ones but it was just right for Caitlin (nearly 9) and Ieuan (7).

They loved it so much Caitlin asked to go and see the show again and Ieuan has not stopped talking about his favourite character, the hilarious Bandersnatch, ever since.

The Bandersnatch - Neal McWilliams
Given that The Hunting of the Snark was written by Carroll in 1874, the cast have done a fabulous job of bringing the poem bang up to date and creating a really memorable show.

Here's what Caitlin and Ieuan had to say.

Caitlin

"The Hunting of the Snark was awesome.  I enjoyed it so much.  I really enjoyed it because it had an adventure and the characters were amazing.  When I danced in the Lord Mayor's Show it was scary and I thought the actors were very brave.  I would really love to see the show again."

Ieuan

"My favourite part of the story was when the Butcher tried to catch the Snark. The funniest part was when the Bandersnatch turned up and did funny poses.  He sang a song about himself and I also liked it when the Jub Jub bird stole the Banker's trousers".

The Hunting of the Snark runs until Saturday 30th July with tickets at £9. You can book online or telephone the box office on 0292064 6900. The Sherman Theatre is situated at Senghennydd Road, Cathays, Cardiff, CF24 4YE.

And, this Christmas The Sherman Theatre is bringing to life another classic in The Borrowers. Directed by Amy Leach (Associate Artist; Dukes Theatre, The Egg and Shakespeare Schools Festival). Their Christmas production for 3 – 6 year olds and their families sees the return of co-production partners, Theatr Iolo, in Hans Christian Anderson’s, The Emperor’s New Clothes / Dillad Newydd yr Ymerawdwr.

We can't wait!
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Thursday, 21 July 2016

Relationship Dilemmas - What Was I Asked In Week 29?

As you may know, I spend a lot of time responding to the questions I am asked about dating & relationships on Quora.com and I thought I'd share some of my answers with you in case you are going through anything similar.



Obviously I am not an expert but I am a 50-something married mum of two with quite a few years' experience under my belt. I take the view that, sometimes, you need to hear it like you would from your own mother - however tough the truth may be.

Here's just some of the questions I've been asked this week.

Q: Are having a soft form of pimples and being skinny unattractive traits if you’re a guy? 


A: These are both things you can do something about. Why not see your doctor who may be able to give you tablets to help your acne? Otherwise, invest in some gentle skin products and be scrupulous about cleansing your skin. 


Drink plenty of water and make sure you get some exercise in the fresh air every day. Don’t eat a diet consisting of too much sugar and saturated fat. 

Why not try some weight training / resistance exercises at your local gym or you can buy dumbbells and an exercise DVD to train at home. 

Whilst pimples and being skinny are not the most attractive traits, there is no reason why you cannot find someone who loves you for you - and that is more likely to happen if you are taking care of yourself and working on your self confidence and self esteem. 

Those are the things that make men the most attractive. No point looking like a Greek God is you have the personality of a rattlesnake, is there? 

Q: Should I ask her out again, the girl who rejected me six months ago but seems to be very friendly now?


I asked her out 6 months ago, but she refused and ignored me a lot. After a month my study course ended and I moved to another state. It's been 4 months now but I'm still receiving messages from her. Does it mean she has feelings for me?  I have feelings for her.

A: It may be that she is just looking for some company from someone she knows finds her attractive, but it does sound as if she is interested. 

When she turned you down and ignored you was she polite about it though? 

If she was not kind or was rude to you I would think twice. If she just said no thanks and then ignored you for a bit it may be that she is having second thoughts but the only way to find out what is really going on is to see if you can meet up. 

You can’t really gauge the state of a relationship just by text messages. Ask her out and you’ll find out quickly enough whether she is really interested or is just after a bit of attention.

Q: If you and a girl had strong feelings for each other before she started dating your best friend, is it okay to start dating her after they break up? 


A: It depends on how your best friend feels about it. I should think it would cause quite a bit of awkwardness between you. 

And she obviously did not feel as strongly as you did if she went off with your best friend. 

If they are still happy together then doing anything to break them up would be very mean. 

I presume the girl knows you still have feelings for her in which case it is for her to decide who she wants. 

 But if you value your friendship with your best friend, I’d suggest you find a girl who is interested in you - and not your best friend. 

Q: Are relationships always an uphill struggle?

Both of us have been dealing with stress from finals and such recently but she has had a tendency to take out her frustration on me and has been spending more time with her coworker. This can be pretty hard on me at times, any insight?

A: It’s OK (and understandable) to say you have both been dealing with stress due to your finals but what is not OK is taking those frustrations out on one another. 

Have you been worse than your girlfriend in this regard? It sounds so if she has been spending time with her coworker. 

Now that your exams are out of the way (and I hope you both did well), why not treat her to a special date to ‘renew’ your relationship - a nice meal, flowers - a bit of romance just to say “sorry I was a pain” (even if she was too) and let’s start afresh. 

If you think that the relationship with the coworker is more than just friendship, however, then you need an open discussion about where your relationship is going - and whether this is a temporary blip.  
Relationships aren’t always an uphill struggle, but they do require nurturing and honest communication. 

Feeling like a victim isn’t going to solve anything. Your girlfriend probably feels the same way. 


Q: If I get rejected by a girl and she insists on being friends but doesn't reply to my texts what do I do?

A: I think you have to accept that she doesn’t want to go out with you but is not brave enough to tell you that - hence the age old get out of “let’s be friends”. 


Your best bet is to stop texting her and see if she starts to pursue you but it does sound as if she has little intention of dating you. 

Why not concentrate on girls who give you positive signs of encouragement, come out from behind your phone screen and go and meet them face to face. 

That’s a much healthier way of developing relationships than playing text tag.


Q: If your boyfriend took your car without your consent, and wouldn't return it even when you asked him to, would you call the police?


A: Why did he take your car? Was it for a specific purpose or just to joyride? 

How did he get the keys? Has there been some sort of understanding between you that he could borrow the car? 

If there has been then I’m not sure the police would take your complaint seriously because there is an implied permission from you for him to use your car. 

Now if you are saying he stole the keys and went off joyriding, that is something else entirely. 

I would want to know why he did it - it sounds like an act of revenge or at least petulance. Is your car a higher performance / value car than his? 

Does he have his own car? I mention this only because if, for example, you are the main breadwinner then there may be a lot of resentment built up on his side. 

This sounds like the behaviour of a petulant child, albeit if he was joyriding he could have caused damage / injury. 

At the very least you need a conversation with him setting out your expectations about your car and telling him what the consequences of ‘borrowing’ it again are. 

To be honest I think if you are considering calling the police, this relationship is basically at an end.


Q: Does it make sense for your partner to get offended just because you don't want to share photos of your ex with them? 

He told me he doesn't consider me his other half because I refused to send him photos that my ex sent to me. I did offer to send them if he promised to delete them later.

A: It depends what is in the photos. If they are not ‘inappropriate’ I can’t see why you wouldn’t want to let your current partner see them. 

Surely there should be no secrets between you. 

I don’t think the photos are even the issue. I think it’s because you are showing more loyalty to your ex than you are to your current partner. 

Why do you need the photos to be deleted? 

If my ex sent me photos I wouldn’t have any qualms about my husband seeing them - not least because I would want to reassure him that my ex is in my past. 

Are you sure your ex is in yours?

Q: What does it mean if my boyfriend of 2 years have not sat down with me to talk about our future plans? Does this mean he is not interested?


A: He obviously does not feel he needs to is the short answer. I am assuming you are asking why he has not proposed? 

If you are already living together, sharing a bed, sharing finances, he may not see what extra being married would bring. 

If you are not living together and he is showing no signs of wanting to, then I think you need to sit HIM down and ask where you are going. 

You don’t need to wait for him to take the initiative you know, especially after 2 years. 

Why have you waited so long to address this? Has he made vague promises about a future together? 

Have you discussed the big issues - what does he feel about marriage and children? 

If you just sit there and wait for him to go down on bended knee, I suspect you are going to have a lengthy wait. 

Don’t waste any more time on someone who might not want a future with you. Ask him - and soon.

Q: Why isn't this girl initiating text and why hasn't she replied for a few days? 

I started texting this girl at school, quite a friendly girl who smiles at me. The first few days of texting she responded enthusiastically and quickly. However, she never once initiated out of the 2 weeks I have known her. She hasn’t replied for 3 days already. And yes, she has ‘seen’ my text.

A: You’ve only known her for 2 weeks and you are worried because she hasn’t replied to one of your texts after 3 days? 

I imagine she feels you have come on much too strong and this has put her off. If she is a friendly girl, I suspect she was only being polite to begin with. 

I would back off from the texting or she’s going to start finding you a nuisance. 

Texting is not having a relationship. It’s playing with your phone. 

Why not find a way of meeting girls face to face where you will find it much easier to gauge whether or not they are interested. 

And try to be less pushy.

How would you have responded to these questions? You can find more dating advice on my problem page.

All materials included in this post are intended for informational purposes only. This post/information is not intended to and should not be used to replace medical or psychiatric advice offered by physicians or other health care providers. The author will not be liable for any direct, indirect, consequential, special, exemplary or other damages arising therefrom.
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Wednesday, 20 July 2016

Can't Get Dad-to-be To Antenatal Classes? DaddyNatal Online Has The Solution

When I was pregnant with Caitlin and Ieuan, the Husband dutifully accompanied me to antenatal classes at our local hospital.

We were lucky that Llandough Hospital is situated just up the road from us and that the Husband was able to find the time to attend.

I appreciate that lots of prospective parents may not be so lucky and I think it is easy for fathers-to-be to be left out, or rather for them to not feel part of the pregnancy until the actual birth.

I was really interested to discover that Dean Beaumont, an award-winning antenatal pioneer and author of the best-selling book ‘The Expectant Dad’s Handbook’ (published by Vermilion) has launched an online video course of antenatal classes especially for dads-to-be called DaddyNatal Online.

This unique new ten-part video-based pregnancy and parenting course is perfect for busy men who might not have time to attend all the classes or perhaps just need a bit of extra guidance and reassurance.



The ten easy-to-follow video tutorials are presented by expert Dean Beaumont and they give a road map for the journey from conception through to the challenges of looking after a newborn.  Dean has a very easy, down-to-earth style of presenting which should make even the most nervous of prospective fathers feel a lot more comfortable.


The prospect of having a new baby on board can be exciting, emotional and, let's face it, pretty terrifying. but daddynatalonline.com provides a raft of useful information from what to expect at each trimester of pregnancy, do’s and don’ts, Dad’s role in labour and even tips on what to pack for the hospital. It also explores strategies for coping with worries and fears about becoming a dad along with key techniques for improving the birth and adjusting to bringing a new baby home.


Included in the course are:-

- A detailed introduction and overview followed by ten online video tutorials
- Downloadable reference sheets and quick quizzes to aid learning
- Advice on what to expect during pregnancy
- What if things don’t go quite to plan
- Packing for the hospital - top tips
- Dad's role as The Protector
- Dad's role as Advocate
- Working out birth preferences
- Insights into dad’s role during labour, and how you can improve the birth
- Bringing baby home!

As Dean Beaumont says "daddynatalonline will help you to have a positive impact on your baby’s birth so that you don’t have to feel like a spare part. You’d train for anything else in your life so why not have proper training for becoming a Dad".

My thoughts exactly.

DaddyNatal Online is available for £49 at www.daddynatalonline.com and I have course membership to give away for one lucky father-to-be (or a mum-to-be who wants to give her partner some extra reassurance).

Perhaps expectant dad Russell Brand would like to enter?  And, although I suspect Mick Jagger has had quite a bit of practice, perhaps a refresher course would come in useful.

Entry is via the Rafflecopter widget and the usual terms and conditions apply.  UK entrants only and the giveaway ends at 11:59 pm on Sunday 7th August 2016.

The prize consists of a gift-code giving the winner immediate access to the course worth £49.

Good luck! a Rafflecopter giveaway


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