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Friday, 17 June 2016

Is Drinking Our Supplements The Answer To Younger, Fresher Skin?

Now that I have reached the age of 52, I'm on a mission to find ways in which I can stay looking younger for longer - without necessarily going under the surgeon's knife.


I recently wrote about some of the non-surgical treatments available but these will only have a temporary effect if your diet, and your lifestyle in general is not up to scratch.

In our menopausal years we face the double-whammy of hormonal upheaval both mentally and physically. Our skin becomes less firm and begins to sag.  Our hair loses colour and becomes coarser or thinner and our nails become weaker and more brittle.

It's not surprising then that the old adage about a woman having to choose between her face and her figure after a certain age makes sense because we have to decide whether to lose those stubborn middle-age pounds that we can gain or keep them and maintain a relatively plump and unlined face!

A sensible diet with the right balance of protein, carbs and healthy fats plus lots of fruit, veggies and water has been drummed into us all daily.  But if you are still working and raising kids, it's not so easy to spend time in the kitchen pursuing the latest 'clean eating' strategy, substituting digestive biscuits for almonds and covering everything in Chia seeds.

It's not just the cooking either.  It's the organisation needed, the planning, the shopping and, with many of these diets, the cost.

And, much though we would like to pretend we are all nutritionists (unfortunately buying a Nutribullet does not automatically give you that qualification), how do we know we are getting the right balance of vitamins and minerals?

As we get older, the needs of our bodies change and there are a number of supplements which are recommended to help protect against ageing.

You may have heard of some of these, such as Hyaluronic Acid, which plays an important role in skin hydration and stimulates the production of collagen in the skin.  The bad news is that by the time we're in our mid-40s we are producing roughly half the amount of Hyaluronic Acid we need with the consequences of wrinkles and thinning hair.

Then there's Glucosamine which occurs naturally in our body as part of our cartilage and when used as a supplement can treat UV damaged skin and hyper-pigmentation, and Biotin (also known as Vitamin H) which supports the B vitamins in our bodies to correctly metabolise our food so that we can extract the nutrients we need from it.  As a supplement, Biotin helps with hair loss and dry or scaling skin.

I often joke that my favourite liquid supplement is red wine because of the anti-aging effects of the mysterious compound it contains - Resveratrol - which is also found in nuts.  It is a renowned anti-inflammatory agent and an antioxidant that helps repair the damge 'free radicals' do to our skin.

Free radicals are generated by our bodies when we convert food to energy and, broadly speaking, they are toxic compounds which can start a chain reaction causing cells to function poorly or die.

Too much red wine, of course, is horrendously dehydrating and I don't know about you but one large glass tends to be my limit as I find any more and the hangover I get seems far worse than it did in my youth!

Have you got the time to make sure you have the right amount of anti-oxidants each day?
So short of spending an arm and a leg in the supermarket loading up our trolley with berries or at our local natural health store buying a wide range of supplements (don't forget Vitamins C and E or Selenium), is there a way we can quickly top up our supplies of these without the expense of buying multiple bottles of different supplements?

Liquid supplements offer a convenient solution to this problem and there is a wide variety of these available in combinations to suit any number of healthcare issues, particularly for those of us in the 40+ age group. Liquid supplements have the advantage of being quickly absorbed and easy to take.  The last vitamin supplements I bought in tablet form were so big I had difficulty swallowing them!

Are liquid supplements effective?  It certainly seems so.  Some research has suggested that only 3-20% of vitamins and minerals in tablet form are absorbed by the body whereas a whopping 98% of liquid vitamins are absorbed because digestive processing is bypassed and they enter your bloodstream within minutes.

This may well be a more effective approach to anti-ageing skincare than relying on face creams alone, no matter how much sunscreen we diligently apply or whatever the latest miracle serum claims to do.

It all depends on your lifestyle and budget, of course, but an excellent skincare regime supported by skin-enhancing liquid supplements may well reduce the need for more intrusive skincare treatments - and will certainly benefit our overall health, not just our complexions.

You can find out more about liquid supplements here.
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Thursday, 16 June 2016

Win A Yankee Candle Riviera Escape Votive Gift Set & £10 Voucher From lovearoma.co.uk

I've been thinking a lot lately about ways to improve your home without spending huge amounts of cash, although it has to be said the Hobbis Towers needs quite a bit of serious renovation.

Aside from changing the soft furnishings or lighting fixtures, a great way to add some pizazz and ring  the changes is by using home fragrance.


Caitlin and I absolutely love Yankee Candles and our Christmas treat each year is the Yankee Candle Advent Wreath or, last year, the Advent House.  There is something really comforting about the variety of scents you find in these and nothing like the romantic glow of candlelight to add atmosphere and a sense of comfort.

In fact, so obsessed am I by this concept that my Amazon wishlist currently contains "The Art of Hygge - How To Bring Danish Cosiness Into Your Life" by Jonny Jackson & Elias Larsen (available to pre-order).

But it is, of course, summer and to celebrate this Yankee Candles has released it's "Riviera Escape" collection of candles and accessories which you can find at Love Aroma, specialists in Home Fragrance.

As well as their online store, Love Aroma has a number of stores across the country and they stock a wide range of home fragrance products, from candles, to diffusers, lamps and accessories. They have also helpfully categorised their fragrances to help you pick something suitable by room, by fragrance and even by occasion.

The company also has a panel of experts in scent and style who have tested every scented candle, diffuser or room spray for its ability to fill rooms with fragrance and look stylish in the home. The panel members come from a variety of backgrounds including perfumery, wine-making, floral design, events, styling, interiors and baking which gives them a wide range of experience when it comes to advising on scent and style.

The scents in the Yankee Candle Riviera Escape Collection are divine.


There is:-

* Riviera Escape - summery, floral & fresh
* Sea Salt & Sage - warm sage with the clean fresh scent of Sea Salt
* Lavender - evocative of a beautiful garden - in England or abroad
* Summer Peach - sweet, comforting
* Sicilian Lemon - fresh, zesty and crisp
* Olive & Thyme - fresh, herbal, musky

Each scent is available in jar, votive or wax melt size.  My favourites are definitely the Sicilian Lemon and the Sea Salt & Sage.

You can also find a wide range of Yankee Candle fragrances in jar size, such as the delicious Mango Peach Salsa Fragrance which we were sent to test in the Medium Jar Size.  This fragrance is sweet and zesty with the scent of juicy mangoes and peaches livened with citrus, ginger flowers and pink pepper.


This was definitely Caitlin's favourite!

If you would like to try the Yankee Riviera Escape fragrances for yourself, I have a votive gift set to give away, together with a £10 gift voucher to use on the Love Aroma website.

I also have a discount code for Mother Distracted readers which entitles you to 20% off your first purchase at Love Aroma valid until the end of July.  Just enter "MotherDistracted" at the checkout page.  There's also free delivery on purchases over £30.

Entry to the giveaway is via the Rafflecopter widget below.  UK entrants only and the usual terms and conditions apply.  The giveaway ends at 11:59 pm on Friday 8th July 2016.

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Wednesday, 15 June 2016

Free & Low Cost Father's Day Treats If You're On A Budget

It's Father's Day in the UK on Sunday 19th June and you may be rushing around trying to find something suitable for the kids to give to their dad. Let's be honest, it usually falls to us mums to sort these things out, doesn't it?

Dads all have their own unique personality, don't they?
But what do you do if you are strapped for cash? For many of us it's an expenditure we can do without.

It is possible to celebrate the day without spending money and by involving our kids we can help them to understand that the true reason behind the day is to show their dad how much he means to them.

For some, Father's Day is fraught with potential difficulties if, for example, parents are separated or divorced.  For others, Father's Day will be spent in quiet reflection thinking about the dad who is no longer with them.

These ritual of these annual celebrations is often emotionally, as well as financially challenging.

But if you are all going to be under one roof for the day, here are some ideas you might want to try, depending on the ages of your kids of course.

- let dad have a lie-in!

- bring him breakfast in bed (this one needs quite a bit of supervision in this house).

- record his favourite sports fixtures and let him have a 'sports' day' where he can sit in state in a comfy armchair whilst the kids bring him a drink and snacks.

- make him his favourite sweet - fudge for example is quite easy to make but again you'll need to supervise the kids with that boiling sugar.

- let the kids clean his car - or at least clean out their mess from the back seat (Fruit Shoot bottles, sweet wrappers, crisp packets!)

- dress the kids up as butlers, cooks and servants and get them to serve dinner Downton Abbey style

- get them to write secret messages on the loo roll (well, dads do tend to spend ages in there, don't they)?!

- the kids can make home-made cards and banners and decorate them themselves.

The dynamic duo have a number of cunning plans for Father's Day apparently
- why not make a 'cheque book' of promises from the kids e.g. "I promise to tidy my room", "I promise to help you clean the car", "I promise not to wake you before 7:30 am on a Sunday"

- how about making a scrap book of old family photos that have a special meaning to him or create some online photo collages ?

- get the kids to recreate his favourite TV programme - how about getting them to do a mini 'Top Gear' using their bikes and scooters or toy cars in the garden.

- older kids can write dad a special poem.

- give dad his absolute favourite Sunday lunch - in our house this will involve Sticky Toffee Pudding but the kids could dish up some jelly and ice-cream with sprinkles...

- have a gaming competition - if you have something like a Wii or just a good old fashioned game of rounders in the park, or skimming stones into the sea

- find the lyrics to dad's favourite songs online and get the kids to give him a show.  The thought of Caitlin and Ieuan having a Killswitch Engage concert for The Husband is, um, intriguing.  Although a whole heap better than an afternoon of Amon Amarth and their shouty Viking rock.

- make hand or foot prints using poster paint and frame them simply with some plain card.

- get dad to play Sherlock.  Hide a simple gift like a bar of dad's favourite chocolate in the house and get the kids to write a series of clues to its secret location.  If he doesn't find it, he has to share it.

- help the kids to make a sign for dad's shed or his 'man cave' using some strong card. Stick it up and throw a few strings of fairy lights around the space to jazz it up a bit.

No matter how you choose to acknowledge the day, the most important thing is to spend time together.

These days we are all so strapped for time, Father's Day is a great opportunity to make some special memories.

And it doesn't have to cost a fortune.
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Monday, 13 June 2016

Win A Beautiful Papilion Lightshade from KaiGami.Com Worth £67

Sometimes you want to freshen up a room without the bother of redecorating.  This is particularly true when you have kids. Just the thought of the mess, the dust, the upheaval is enough to make you think twice.

The beautiful Papilion Lightshade from KaiGami.com
A brilliant way to quickly change the look of a room is to play around with your use of lighting and perhaps invest in a new lightshade and I have discovered some beautiful, ornamental shades produced by KaiGami.com which are unique and would definitely be a talking point.

KaiGami is a British company which designs and manufactures functional, aesthetically pleasing, innovative and affordable products for the design-conscious luxury market, whilst exploring premium materials.

One of the things that makes the company different is that 90% of its designs are made using Laser Cutting technology.

Their motto is "The world around you creates you: fill it with beauty” and KaiGami, devised by Guillaume Lyons, draws inspiration from an ancient art form - Origami, invented in the Far East in China in AD 100.

KaiGami follows the principle of origami in the idea that one can create an object from a flat piece of malleable material. KaiGami pieces go beyond the ornamental as each is designed for a specific function and it is important to the company that they support the UK economy by having everything made in Britain.

To create a piece of KaiGami sculptural design a profile, either symmetrical or asymmetrical is cut from a piece of flat malleable material before the final process of creation begins. Once cut the profile is usually bent into shape rather than folded and it is this process that gives each design its curves and volume - quite unlike origami's angular ornaments.

KaiGami lightshades are so unique that they would make an ideal house-warming gift or a present for a design-conscious friend or relative.

KaiGami has kindly given me a Papilion Shade worth £67 to give away.

Inspired by the contours of a butterfly's wings, the shapes created are soft and easy on the eye and evoke the freedom of a butterfly in flight.

The shade is made from Polypropylene, a highly durable material, as are the rivets which hold this light shade together, so it can be easily recycled. The shade is designed to be used with a 60 watt equivalent energy saving lightbulb.

It comes in two sizes:  Large Papillion measures: L 50cm x W 50cm x H 30cm Small Papillion measures: L 35cm x W 35cm x H 25cm.  The shades come either flat packed or assembled for a small additional charge.

The shade I have to give away comes fully assembled. Entry is via the Rafflecopter below and the usual terms and conditions apply.  UK entrants only.  The giveaway ends on Friday 1st July at 11:59 pm.

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Time To Break "The Circle Of 'Grump"

I’m sure many parents will recognise that feeling when you’re on the brink of losing it. Junior has forgotten to tell you about their urgent homework. Or there’s pen on the walls. Or chocolate. The cat has brought in something which was once some sort of living organism and left it for you to put your foot on as soon as you come downstairs in the morning.



It’s that feeling when you start to lose your temper and your irritation levels bubble up to leave you in a state where “the voice” takes over.

 You know the one. The voice is a combination of your inner critical parent, a drill sergeant and a grizzly bear. And it goes on relentlessly. Heck even you hate listening to it.

The problem with this kind of reaction to your children’s misdemeanours (or your partner’s come to that) is that you will swiftly be tuned out and ignored.

And it does nothing to make you feel better or resolve any issues.

The usual result of entering the “Circle of Grump” is that you end up feeling dreadful, guilty and even more irritated whilst whatever has been bothering you carries on anyway.

Oh no!  Mum's entered "The Circle of Grump" again!
As parents we need to recognise the warning signs that tell us the Circle of Grump is approaching and this means prioritising our own self care through adequate sleep and exercise, and great nutrition.

Relying on a deadly combination of late nights / caffeine / early evening wine is setting you up for longer term exhaustion. It’s no wonder you can’t think straight to solve the problems thrown at you. Because that’s really why you lose it I find – simply because you are being asked for the solution to a problem and you don’t, at that moment, have the physical or emotional energy to think around the problem and come up with the best solution for everyone.

I know I am about to enter the Circle of Grump when I

- Don’t listen properly to what is being said to me
- Feel my blood pressure rise and a hot flush start
- Feel my heart beat faster
- Feel a sense of panic

Actually most of these symptoms have much in common with those of a panic attack and it’s not pleasant when your darling offspring are looking at you wondering when you morphed into the Incredible Hulk.

Mindfulness and meditation will help but you need immediate solutions and something that will break the pattern – concentrating on your breath for example or going somewhere else for 5 minutes to calm down.

You need a holding statement you can use such as “mummy is going to take this to the kitchen to think about it” or “I’m not happy about xx behaviour but we’ll discuss it later when I’m calmer”.

 That way you can discuss the problem calmly, logically and get the child’s input. It is better to see that the child understands the problem and gain their co-operation by allowing them to suggest their own solutions than it is to browbeat them into doing something “because mummy says so” – we all know how well that one works.

The most important thing is not to play the blame game. Sometimes we expect ourselves to be paragons of virtue and patience. I am not the Buddha (although there is a slight physical resemblance).

It is the unique combination of our imperfections as individuals that often creates a strong family bond because we grow together and learn how to overcome them.

As the great metaphysical writer Louise Hay would say, we are all doing the best we can where we are at the moment.

And in any case, when it all gets too much I like to make myself a strong coffee and ask myself the eternal question “what would Oprah do”? That’s a pretty good starting point I reckon.

There is a way out of the “Circle of Grump”. Who knows, perhaps Sir Elton might write a song about it.
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Sunday, 12 June 2016

Win A Hamper of Garofalo Gluten Free Pasta - 4 To Give Away!

Like many busy parents, we find pasta is a family staple for quick and nutritious meals.  The kids will happily eat it and it's quick to prepare after a long day.


Incredibly versatile, it's just as good in a summer pasta salad as it is in the traditional Italian pasta dishes.  I'm sure Spaghetti Bolognese is a staple meal in houses up and down the UK!

Recently there has been a lot of press about going Gluten free.  Gluten is a mixture of proteins found in wheat and other grains.  It gives elasticity to dough and often gives the final product a chewy texture.

Unfortunately, not everybody can tolerate gluten and it can cause side effects ranging from the mild, for those who are gluten-intolerant to more serious in the case of those with Coeliac Disease.

Coeliac Disease is a disease in which the small intestine is hypersensitive to gluten, leading to difficulty in digesting food.

For suffers, eating gluten can trigger a range of symptoms from bloating and abdominal pain, to weight loss and feeling constantly tired because they are not receiving sufficient nutrients from their food.

A gluten free diet is the obvious solution.

As you might imagine, living without pasta is not an option for many and particularly for Italians. This is why Garofalo has their gluten free pasta range, only launching with a product and shapes that met the high standard of Italians following a gluten free diet.

Garofalo also considered it equally important to produce a healthy product, which in the end might even be better than normal pasta!

They have used corn flour, rice flour and quinoa and shaped the pasta through a traditional bronze die for texture.

Since many on a gluten free diet struggle to consume enough fibre, Garofalo's gluten free pasta contains 7g of fibre per 100g.

The super food quinoa adds even more nutrients to Garofalo’s gluten free pasta; it contains fibre and minerals such as phosphorus, magnesium, iron and zinc. It is also an excellent source of vegetable protein and obviously gluten free.

Garofalo sent me a selection of their gluten free pasta to try and we opted for the linguine which the Husband whipped up in to his Bacon and Parmesan Carbonara in about 15 minutes flat.


We did not notice any difference in taste from 'normal' pasta although there is a slightly different texture so as a gluten free option this is great.

You could happily serve this without anyone suspecting a thing, which is always useful when you have picky eaters in the family and don't want the faff of having to prepare two separate batches of pasta!

If you'd like to try Garofalo's Gluten Free Pasta for yourself, I have 4 hampers to give away, each containing 6 packs of their gluten free pasta.

You can also buy the product from Ocado, Amazon or Gustalia.

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Friday, 10 June 2016

Win An Air Storm Z-Tek Bow & Air Storm Firetek Rockets™ From ZING®

I have a fabulous giveaway from ZING® which is just right for getting the kids outdoors in the fresh air.

Zing makes high-quality toys for high-action play and their mission is to promote a healthy, active lifestyle by compelling kids to turn off their video games or smartphones, get off the couch, and get up to play!

Their inventors are kids at heart with safety in mind, bringing you fun in a zillion packages: mini-monsters, boomerangs, and big bows! Soaring rockets, dart blasters, and sticky creatures!

So, to the prizes.  First off  I have one Air Storm - Z-Tek Bow to giveaway. 




The next big thing in bow technology, the Z-Tek Bow has a sleek new design and shape plus shorter bungees for faster firing.

The arrow clips right on the bow for quick reloads and a powerful presence for all archery fanatics. Hook in the Zartz™ Arrow or Zonic™ Whistling Arrow, position the shot, and watch it fly through the air for an incredible 100 feet!

Includes a Z-Tek Bow, two Zonic™ Whistling Arrows and one Suction-Cup Zartz™ Arrow.

Please note the Air Storm Z-Tek bow comes in two colours – green and orange but the prize supplied may be either colour.

Price: £19.99rrp Age: 8+ Available: Now

I also have 4 Air Storm Firetek Rockets™ to give away.




The Firetek Rocket is the newest addition to Zing’s Firetek line with lights and sounds, ready for outdoor day or night fun!

Turn the light switch on the rocket to power up the action, Then, attach the Firetek light-up rocket to the launcher, pull the tab, and let it soar into the sky!

Hear the whistle-screaming arrows in action as the rocket flies up to 250 feet high with just a simple flick of the wrist. The Firetek rockets are set to fly to incredible heights with long-lasting performance. Each set comes with two whistle-screaming light-up rockets and one launcher.

Price: £9.99rrp Age: 5+ Available: Now

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