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Monday, 23 February 2015

Style at The Oscars 2015 - Affordable Frocks For Us Stars To Be

As usual there were some stunning gowns on the red carpet at last night's Oscars but for those of us who aren't quite in the same earning bracket, there are plenty of gorgeous frocks to be hand on the high street at the moment. Good to see that old-style glamour is back.

Here are a few of my favourite looks and slightly more purse friendly alternatives.


Reese Witherspoon in Tom Ford at Oscars 2015
Reese Witherspoon wore an icy blue Tom Ford gown

Marion Cotillard in Dior Couture Gown
Marion Cotillard wore an unusual Dior Couture gown.

Marion Cotillard in Dior Couture at Oscars 2015


Julianne Moore in Chanel at Oscars 2015
Julianne Moore wore Chanel

Felicity Jones in Alexander McQueen at Oscars 2015
Felicity Jones wore an off-grey Alexander McQueen gown

Dakota Johnson in Saint Laurent at Oscars 2015
Dakota Johnson wore Saint Laurent
Emma Stone in Elie Saab at Oscars 2015
Emma Stone in Elie Saab

Lady Gaga in Azzedine Alaia at Oscars 2015
Lady Gaga in Azzedine Alaia - not sure about the marigolds though...


Jennifer Lopez in Elie Saab at Oscars 2015
Jennifer Lopez in Elie Saab

And now some high street versions....

Lace and Beads Cap Sleeve Maxi - House of Fraser


Sophia Maxi Dress from Coast

Maddison Dress - Coast

River Island Colour Block Pencil Dress

ASOS Red Carpet Princess Dress

ASOS Red Carpet Premium Dress

Phase Eight Luna Dress


Sienna Chiffon Pleat Halter Jewel Trim Maxi - Boohoo.com

Little Mistress Blue Stripe Lace Layered Maxi Dress

Michael Michael Kors sleeveless jersey maxi dress

There's truly something for every budget.  Now all I need is a good agent.
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Sunday, 22 February 2015

Silent Sunday - 22/02/2015






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Saturday, 21 February 2015

When can a child travel in the front of a car?

Yes, we all fell in love with this sporty BMW at our recent visit to the BMW pop-up shop which appeared in St. David's shopping centre in Cardiff.  Leaving aside the fact that we'd probably have to sell the kids to get one, the knotty issue of kids' safety and sitting in the front seat reared (ha!) its head again.


Every time we measure the kids, we check to see how close they are to 135 cm (approx 4 ft 6"), because I had it in my head that once they reach this height, they are allowed to travel in the front seat and / or no longer need a booster seat.  

BMW 428i M Sport
What are my chances of getting one of these for Mothers' Day? 

Ieuan in BMW
Ieuan, dreaming of getting his hands on the keys...


I am aware, of course, that it is considered safer for children to travel in the back of the car, but there are occasional instances when the ability to put Caitlin or Ieuan in the front seat would be helpful- for example when travel sickness rears its ugly head.

There seems to be a great deal of confusion on this topic. For example, if you have a two seater vehicle, you obviously have no choice but to put your child in the front,using the appropriate and correctly fitted car seat and with the airbag switched OFF if the car seat is rear facing.  

This afternoon we measured the children again.  Caitlin is 124 cm and Ieuan 119 cm and, after a repeat of the "when will I be tall enough to sit in the front" conversation, I thought it time to check out what the Law actually says.

And here it is, according to www.childcarseats.org.uk:-

All children travelling in the front or rear seat of any car, van or goods vehicle must use the correct child car seat until they are either 135 cm in height or 12 years old (whichever is reached first).  

After this they must use an adult seat belt.  There are very few exceptions.

It is the driver's responsibility to ensure that children under the age of 14 years are restrained correctly in accordance with the law.

The law is different for buses, coaches and minibuses with seat belts fitted.

To my mind, this raises more questions than it answers.  It certainly does not draw any distinction between front and rear seat travel.

Details of the most appropriate child car seat are available on the Childcarseats.org.uk website but these recommendations go according to weight and not height. In other words, the car seat you choose must be appropriate for your child's weight up to the age of 12 or the height of 135 cm, whichever is reached first.

The Government's website is not much clearer at www.gov.uk/child-car-seats-the-rules/using-a-child-car-seat-or-booster-seat.   

"Children must normally use a child car seat until they're 12 years old or 135 cm tall".

But even this does not really give a definitive answer to the front / rear seat question. 

Child safety in vehicles is such an important issue that I think it's time we were given a much clearer set of rules appropriate for different classes of private vehicles.  There seem to be so many contradictions.

Caitlin and Ieuan travel in the back of our car on booster seats and that, until they reach the magic height of 135 cm or the age of 12 is where they'll be staying. But my understanding is that if I had to put them in the front, I could do so as long as they are placed on their booster seats.

If you are aware of any other regulations that may clarify this child safety issue, please let me know!
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Jessops Photo offers special baby passport photo service.

Now I have a confession. Despite approaching my 4th wedding anniversary in September, I haven't quite got round to updating my passport with my married name.

Nor I have got passports for the children. 

Given that the Husband is the only frequent flyer in the family, this hasn't proved a problem so far, but now that travelling with children seems a marginally less stressful proposition, a jaunt to France or somewhere European and family friendly beckons.


UK passport photo


This is, of course, traditionally the time of year when 'passport panic' sets in. 


Nobody can remember where the Passport offices are and the Media crank up the pressure with nightmare tales of mounds of passport forms waiting to be dealt with, resembling the closing scene of "Raiders of the Lost Ark" when the ark is placed back in the vaults of the British Museum.

Lest you are as in the dark as I am about the administrative requirements, the Government's website explains all here (together with the rather eye-watering £46 charge per passport).


There is also a helpful section which explains the strict rules about passport photographs.  


For example, I had not realised that you may not wear your glasses in your passport photo!

The rules for children's passport photos are (in addition to the general photograph requirements which apply to everyone):-


- the child must be on their own in the picture

- babies must not be holding toys or using dummies

- children under 6 don't have to be looking directly at the camera or have a neutral expression

- children under 1 don't have to have their eyes open.  If their head is supported by a hand, the hand must not be visible in the photo.

I'm sure that the idea of wrestling with your offspring in a photo booth on the high street is deeply unappealing so I was interested to hear that Jessops, the photography people, have launched a new 'special baby passport service', where they will take perfect passport pictures in a gentle and easy way.


Jessops Photography

They say "the whole experience of taking your little one’s passport photo is made more enjoyable with the help of Jessops’ friendly staff who will put your baby and you at ease.

Jessops uses comfortable and supportive baby cushions that will keep even the tiniest baby propped upright.

To make life even easier your pictures will be instantly printed in store using Fujifilm technology, meaning the whole process takes only a matter of minutes.

And the price is a reasonable £9.95 for 4 images.

Certainly worth the avoidance of all those tears and tantrums (and that's just me).


Jessops Newborn Photography

Jessops’ professional photography experts are specially trained to take photos that comply with UK passport regulations, making the process of applying for a passport as hassle-free as possible.

In the unlikely event the photos are still rejected, Jessops will offer you a free retake.

Newborn photography


The Baby Passport Service is available in all Jessops stores. For further information, just contact your local Jessops or telephone 0344 800 4444.

The Government website you need is www.gov.uk/get-a-child-passport.
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Thursday, 19 February 2015

Save at ACHICA.Com with £20 off a Minimum £40 spend

£20 discount at ACHICA's new website
ACHICA's New Website Offer

ACHICA, the members-only, online lifestyle store is currently offering a £20 discount off a minimum spend of £40 to celebrate the launching of their new website at www.achica.com.

ACHICA offers "desirable brands at exceptional prices" and has buying teams across the World working with premium labels and niche boutiques to bring a great choice of furniture, homewares and accessories at up to 70% off the recommended retail price.


ACHICA is free to join and members can choose to receive daily or weekly emails alerting them to exclusive promotions ahead of everyone else. 


New promotions launch daily at 6:30 am and last for up to 5 days so demands is often high, but ACHICA also offer a core collection of home essentials which are always available to purchase.

The website is really user friendly and allows you to shop by promotion, style or department.


There is also a blog which offers great inspiration too.

We've used neutral tones in our lounge and dining room to complement the wood floors which the Husband has lovingly restored.  


It's wonderfully calming but I do occasionally have the urge to inject a pop of colour.


Peaceful neutrals in our sitting room
Peaceful neutrals at home


ACHICA "Home" checked cushion
Home Check 35 x 50cm cushion £15, reduced from £39

ACHICA natural hide poof
Natural Hide Poof - Ivory Brown £145 reduced from £179.99

ACHICA Patchwork Large 2 Seater Sofa
Patchwork Large 2 Seater Sofa £429 reduced from £799


Our recently installed fireplace provides a focal point for our sitting room - and yes, we are going to paint that mirror gold rather than silver!

Our fireplace at home
Our fireplace at home


But there are some braver choices on ACHICA.

ACHICA Rectangle Locomotive Mirror
Rectangle Locomotive Mirror - only 4 left - £649 reduced from £1,199


ACHICA Sculptured Lounge Chair
Sculptured Lounge Chair - Pink Wool - Only 4 left - £349 reduced from £599


ACHICA "Dent" Light Shade
Dent Shade 80, Gold £99 reduced from £176

We love our dining room with its statement sideboard and mirror but, again, I wonder what the injection of some colour and quirkiness would do.

Our dining room
Our Dining Room

ACHICA Babalou 6 Drawer Tower
Babalou 6 Drawer Tower, £299 reduced from £549

ACHICA Memory Carved Sideboard
Memory Carved 2 Door & 2 Drawer Sideboard - £999 reduced from £1,890
ACHICA Antiques Laughing Buddha
Antiques Laughing Budda - Only 1 in stock - £379 reduced from £795

As you can see, Achica.com has a wide range in eclectic and stylish items and also stocks items for the garden, children, and leisure and pets among others.    

ACHICA Naunton Manor Barcelona 6 Seater Round Set
Naunton Manor Barcelona 6 Seater Round Set - £749 reduced from £1,099

ACHICA Lourdes Cat Knitted Poncho
Lourdes Cat Knitted Poncho - only 1 left - £16 reduced from £60


ACHICA Chester & Wells Richmond Dog Bed
Chester & Wells Richmond Dog Bed in Red, Small - only 5 left - £105 reduced from £149.99.

Achica is certainly worth a look if you fancy unleashing your inner Linda Barker or Laurence Llewelyn Bowen. 

And you may well find unique pieces to make your home truly individual.
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Wednesday, 18 February 2015

Pirates & Princesses Party at Hamleys, Cardiff - Landlubber-ly Jubberly!

Following our safari adventures at Hamleys Cardiff last summer, we were thrilled to be invited to sail the high seas for friend Ruby's 6th birthday party. 

I remembered the welcome haven that was the lovely air conditioned party room and the fun Caitlin and Ieuan had with Hamleys enthusiastic staff.


Hamleys Toy Store Logo


Store front of Hamleys Toy Store in Cardiff


Would they be up to the challenge on a Sunday morning?  


And a Sunday upon which Wales were playing Scotland and had to pull their socks up after the England debacle too.
 Happy Birthday sign outside Hamleys Toy Store Cardiff


Ieuan dressed as spiderman outside Hamleys Toystore Cardiff
Apparently, Ieuan is dressed in full pirate regalia underneath his Spiderman suit.

We were met by Captain James (who looked suspiciously familiar to me), Princess Seren and Pirate Alex who quickly took charge of proceedings and instigated a photocall in front of the bemused parents and shoppers.



Group of party kids outside Hamleys Toystore Cardiff


The party goers about to go in to the Pirate & Princesses Party at Hamleys Toystore Cardiff
Butter wouldn't melt ....

And so it was that 14 children and their (ahem) responsible adults started on a treasure hunt to explore the inner recesses of the store and to find the pirates' treasure.  

Clues had been carefully hidden and the party began their search.


A bus driving teddy bear in Hamleys Toystore, Cardiff
Yes,  the Hamleys bus does run on Sundays

The kids enjoying a treasure hunt at the Pirates & Princesses Party at Hamleys Toystore Cardiff
Full concentration was required for the reading of the clue


Caitlin being greeted by a princess
Caitlin, dressed as Elsa since Frozen's release confers with Princess Seren

The treasure hunt took us right around the store, passing, en route,  Lego, books, arts & crafts and finally ending at the true location of the treasure, the pick 'n' mix display!

Then it was left to Captain James to lead the team in the (somewhat surprisingly for pirates), application of the glitter tattoos, before heading off to the party room with the treasure.


Form an orderly queue ladies ....

Nothing makes a girl happier than a glitter rabbit tattoo

Ieuan .... not so much!

Whilst the kids were being tattooed (a possible programme concept for Channel 5?),  I took the time to peruse the store and to reminisce about being in the London flagship Hamleys store in the '70s and the strange bubble-gum paste you could buy there which created balloons when inflated by a small plastic tube. 

That was if the smell of the paste hadn't knocked you out first.  

Happy days.


Ooh look ....

The party room was set up with a table and one or two furry guests.  

There was a fabulous pirate themed backdrop behind the table.  

There were sweets, drinks, crafts and the obligatory DVD of Frozen playing on a raised screen on one wall. 

There was a dance floor lit by a light display in the shape of an inverted birthday cake and soft bean bags to relax on.  


The room is air conditioned and there is a toilet adjacent to the party room suitable for disabled use.  

After a session of colouring and badge making with Captain James, whilst Princess Seren and Pirate Alex carried out face and nail painting, it was time for some party games.

Captain James leading the colouring ...



and the badge making...

Party guest Joshua, looking mighty fierce

Ieuan, reunited with his favourite parrot, Boris 

There were musical statues and musical bumps (Gangnam style, naturally), Pirates Footsteps (in my youth it was "What's the time Mr Wolf?") and Duck or Goose (which I still haven't grasped, but which involves much hectic running and whooping).  

The Hamleys team had soon rendered the children exhausted and held an impromptu relaxation session before the food arrived.

What voodoo is this?

Happily the children revived in time for the food (supplied by nearby Ruby Tuesday) and a beautiful Frozen themed cake (supplied by Hamleys).  

There were mini burgers, chicken wings, fries and favourite party fare such as chocolate fingers.

Mini Ruby Tuesday Burgers

Ruby's lovely birthday cake


Birthday girl Ruby 

After a rousing chorus of "Happy Birthday" to Ruby, the children were delighted to meet surprise guest Hamley Bear who, despite his size, managed to throw some quite convincing shapes whilst dancing with the birthday girl to "For the first time in forever".  

He was then practically overpowered as the party guests claimed their own hugs and dances.  

Photographed by yours truly in "shakey-vision"

Then it was goody bags, balloons and generous slices of cake all round as the party guests left Captain James and his team to recover.   


We had a great time at the Hamleys Pirates & Princesses Party and, as I mentioned in my previous blog post here, although the price per head is arguably a little higher than, say, the local soft play centres, this is more than made up for by the fact that everything is done for the party organiser, bar send out the invitations - making it extremely stress free.  

Hamleys' themed parties are available every day and include, for example, Superhero!, Safari, Tea Party and even a pampering party, Luvley.  Packages, with the exception of Tea Party, are priced at £35 per child for 2 hours partying and the party room can accommodate up to 16 children with a minimum of 10 children per booking and a maximum of 4 supervising adults per booking.

The Pirates & Princesses party included:

* gift bag
* special gift for the birthday girl or boy
* exclusive themed cake
* party food
* party invitations
* balloons and stickers
* Hamley bear VIP visit
* games and activities.

Extras for all parties can be provided such as a magician, photographer, videographer or face painter.  
The value of the gift bag is around the £20 mark and the items contained in it are good quality. Ieuan's gift bag selection contained a miniature nerf gun and Caitlin had a lovely cuddly toy horse.



For full information please visit www.hamleys.com, email cardiffparty@hamleys.com or call 0207 478 3606.

*We were invited as guests of  St Davids' Cardiff and Hamleys Toy Store.
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