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Wednesday 24 May 2017

Pocket Money Problems

With so many bills to pay for, it can be a challenge to fund your kids. After all, they always want new toys and tech to add to their collection. And they are always asking for money to be able to go out with their friends. But you might struggle to afford to give them their pocket money. 

Here are some ways you can still ensure your little ones do get pocket money.



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Try some freelance work

You might struggle to afford pocket money when you have so many things to pay out for. After all, household bills can soon add up. And it can leave you little money to give to your kids for pocket money. Therefore, to help you raise the funds, you might want to do some extra work. After all, doing some freelance work can ensure your kids have a tidy sum to spend in their life. 

In fact, you can look online for some work you can fit around your main job to help support your kids. For example, filling out surveys can help you to earn some extra cash from the comfort of your home. And you might even want to start a blog. After all, if you manage to build your audience, you can get sponsored posts which will earn you some money from your blog!

Sell their old items

With new gadgets making an appearance every couple of months, it’s no surprise kids are always wanting to upgrade their devices. After all, kids as young as 11 have a mobile these days. And constantly updating them means they have old items which just end up sitting in a drawer. 

But if you want to raise funds for their pocket money, you should consider selling these old items. After all, if they have a mobile or a tablet which is still in good nick, you might be able to get a few hundred for the item. And even if it’s broken, there are some sites out there like On Recycle who will give you money for the item. 

That way, you can put it in your child’s pocket money pot. And you could always try and find a buyer online. After all, there are lots of parents out there who will be willing to splash the cash for the item!

Look at small jobs for them

Of course, your child might be too young to go and find a part-time job to help earn their pocket money! But there are some small opportunities which will help them raise some money for their pocket money funds. 

For example, going to water next door’s plants could help them pocket a few extra coins every week. Or even walking an elderly neighbour’s dog could help them to earn some extra money. Even feeding the pooch or cat while the neighbour is away could be a good opportunity for them. And they might want to do some form of a bake sale or even a lemonade stand to earn some money. 

After all, it can teach them leadership and responsibility while earning them some money at the same time.



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And be careful not to give them too much pocket money. Average kids in the UK get £6.55 a week which can be a lot for a family to afford!
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Monday 22 May 2017

How Has Your Kitchen Changed Through The Decades? Prestige know.


I always think that the kitchen is the heart of the home and, if you're lucky, you have enough room in yours for a table to eat at.

Ieuan Hobbis about to tuck into some curry
The Husband's curry night - unheard of when I was growing up
It seems, however, that fewer families are eating together or even sitting down to three regular meals a day.  We are becoming a nation of grazers - and that's a shame because if we don't sit down to eat together we lose more than just the chance of a decent meal.

We miss conversation, sharing and the chance to bond and grow together as a family.

Back in April 2015, a study commissioned by Highland Spring into family life discovered that 25% of parents spent just 34 minutes with their kids each day. Six in ten parents said they struggled to get the whole family together and just four meals a week were eaten as a group.  And usually, the kids can't wait to get back to their gadgets these days, can they?

Caitlin Hobbis whisking eggs in a bowl at home in the kitchen
Caitlin helping me bake a cake earlier this year

Not only that, but despite the huge numbers of TV cookery shows, we are cooking less too.  It's all too easy to rely on the popty ping (microwave) as we call it here in Wales.

A study by market research institute GFK in the same year asked more than 27,000 people between the ages of 15 and 60 (from 22 countries) about their home cooking habits. Whilst India was the nation creating the most meals from scratch spending over 13 hours per week cooking, we Brits managed a below average 5.9 hours a week in the kitchen.

Cooking certainly seemed to play a much more important role in family life in previous decades. Our kitchen has always been my mother's domain and as a child of the 60's I grew up on casseroles, pilafs, kedgerees and desserts like Symington's Table Creams, Creme Caramel, Angel Delight, Instant Whip and Dream Topping (all healthy stuff!).

Cheesecakes used to be made with a McVities Digestive Biscuit base, about a foot of Philadelphia Cream Cheese and a tin of black cherries poured on top.

Kitchens very much reflect the trends in cooking don't they?  Nobody had heard of a spiraliser back in the 70's and courgettes were strange relatives of the cucumber to be sliced, covered in salt and olive oil and fried.  The same with tagines or those enormous Parmesan graters - unknown in the majority of British households.  And, as Peter Kay once said "Garlic bread? It's the future.  I've tasted it!"

Prestige have prepared their own homage to the changing face of the nation's kitchens with a fun interactive timeline which revisits the kitchens of decades gone by. You'll see when key innovations such as the microwave or pressure cooker made their first appearance. The timeline can be viewed here http://kitchensthroughthedecades.prestige.co.uk/.

Take a look and take yourself back down memory lane (even my favourite Pot Noodles make an appearance).

Then, why not commit to a family midweek dinner.  Get your Prestige cookware or bakeware out and relive some of your past food favourites.

Kitchens Through The Decades A look back at Kitchen Design by Decade has been produced by Prestige.
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Friday 19 May 2017

Review: Zookiez & Wobbleez - Soft & Cute Play Pets With A Twist

Lots of Caitlin's and Ieuan's friends have pets and, loving mother that I am, I have discovered a fuss free solution that involves no vets bills.

Zookiez and Wobbleez from Sinco Toys are two ranges of plush, cuddly toy animals which will delight anyone from age 3 to 103.



Zookiez are toy pets which can be slapped on to your wrist and they will hold on tight with their furry paws.  Because their paws will grip, they can be carried about on your arm or even attached to a backpack or school bag.

There are 6 Zookiez to collect, 2 cats, 2 dogs, a bear and, Ieuan's new friend, a panda.

Collage of Ieuan Hobbis demonstrating the Zookiez Panda
Panda is lovely and soft and retails around the £10 mark.

Wobbleez is a range of pets who magically walk when you pull their lead - all without batteries. There's 3 to collect, a Golden Retriever, a Dalmation and a Shepherd Dog.



They have specially adapted paws which rock gently when you pull the toy along giving the illusion that your pet is walking.  You do have to pull gently though - if you pull too hard, your wobbleez will fall over.

We have not taken our Wobbleez dog outside as he is clearly designed for indoor use.



Again, this was a good quality toy with a very plush feel and Caitlin has named hers Apricot.  Ieuan being Ieuan has named his panda, Panda.  Wobbleez retail around the £20 mark.

Caitlin Hobbis with her Wobbleez Shepherd Dog toy
The dog's lead comes in three parts which you simply clip together and attach to a loop already round the neck of the toy.  It clips on quite securely and even with quite some tugging didn't come off when we got the dog walking.

Wobbleez are recommended for the 3's and over up to about 10 although I found them pretty cute myself.

Here's the last word from Caitlin.



You can find Zookiez and Wobbleez at major toy stockists including Smyths.

*PR samples were sent for the purpose of this post.
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Thursday 18 May 2017

FREE - The Ultimate Guide To Revision From Tutora.co.uk

No matter what age you are, or at what stage in your academic career, exams are a fact of life - and can be one of the most stressful times to get through.

The word STUDY spelt out on dice

Everyone has their own way of dealing with revision and the accompanying pressure but sometimes it's all too easy to succumb to panic or to leave your exam preparation to the very last minute.

Tutora.co.uk, the online platform which allows students and parents to connect directly with talented and trusted tutors, has published The Ultimate Guide To Revision.

Free to download or read online, the Guide contains 9 chapters containing a wealth of expert advice, tips and how-to's.

The chapters are:-

1. How to start revision
2. How to create a revision timetable
3. How to create the perfect study space
4. Revision techniques
5. How to be productive during revision
6. How to make the most of your study leave
7. Exam tuition
8. How to deal with exam stress
9. Exam day

Hand writing an examination paper

As a mum of two school-aged kids and having been an English Tutor myself, I am proud to have contributed some of the advice readers of my blog have already discovered when it comes to the joys of studying and exam-taking!

The Guide contains a wealth of expert advice from contributors such as:-

*Bradley Busch, Psychologist and Director at InnerDrive.
*Scott Woodley, Co-founder of Tutora.
*Dan Lever, Managing Director at StudentHut.
*Lucy Parsons, Academic Coach at Life More Extraordinary
*Keith Clifford, Marketing and Content Director, Revision World Networks Ltd.
*Eleni Cashell, editor of Whatuni.com.
*Matt Jones, Education Officer at Tutora.
*Sophie Coulthard, Associate Director of Judgement Index.
*Giorgio Cassella, Marketing Manager at Tutora.

In short, it's a fabulous free resource I suggest you check out as soon as possible now that we are well and truly in exam season.

You can find the guide on this link:-  https://tutora.co.uk/guides/the-ultimate-revision-guide.

Please share with anyone you know who is studying and parents will find this a useful guide to coach and encourage their kids.

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If you have any questions either relating to the Guide or about revision in general, pop a comment below and I'll make sure the relevant expert answers your question.

And if you found the guide useful, be sure to let me know.

Good luck with your exams!
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Wednesday 17 May 2017

Baby On The Way? Sommer Pyne's Home Hacks For House Proud Parents


I don't know about you but housework often comes at the bottom of the to-do list when it comes to fitting in work and kids.  By the time you've run the kids to their various social engagements and after-school clubs and chucked something in the oven, there's very little time to flick a duster about.

There are though some parents who still manage to keep a stylish home when they have small children.  


I think I've missed a trick because I probably should have got myself a bit more organised before I had kids and, when you're in that nesting phase, it's a great time to prepare yourself for the nappy onslaught whilst still maintaining an elegant home.

If you'd like to know how your home can look more polished than demolished, then here are some tips from Tommee Tippee ambassador, Sommer Pyne, owner of House Curious and mum to Lyla and Indy.

And read on because I have another great giveaway.

Sommer says:

1. Get organised


As boring as it may sound getting organised and having everything in its place before the baby arrives will help you feel empowered and in control.

· When you have the energy, start sorting through your cupboards and do a big clean out. Get rid of anything that you don’t need to make space for all your new baby supplies!

· Some things you’ll want to store away; like bottles, sterilising equipment and toys, but there may be other things that you need on display for quick and easy access. The Tommee Tippee steriliser from the Complete Starter Set is handy to keep within easy reach because of its compact size and it looks stylish.

· Go through each room and think about how you’ll use the space.

· Make a list of the things you need quick access to or that can be put away.



2. Feeding


I had such a hard time with breastfeeding the first time around, I was feeding hourly and my daughter never seemed to get enough milk. My saving grace and something I recommend to all my friends is to swap the night feed for formula. It was life changing for me and my daughter slept through and gave my body a much needed break.

With formula feeding you have a lot more equipment so that’s why it’s good to be organised. Make things easy for yourself so when you need to prep the baby’s bottle at 3am you have everything to hand.

The Tommee Tippee Perfect Prep machine is brilliant because it looks cool and matches my black steriliser, so I don’t mind having it on display and it makes prepping a bottle a breeze, even when I’m half asleep. I’ve got the black version and have it on my kitchen counter. It’s quick and easy to use and anything that makes my life easier is welcome to stay!

3. Storage solutions

· Baby station

In the rooms that I spend most of my time like the living room, bedroom and kitchen I’ve set up baby stations that have all my baby essentials neatly packed away and on hand whenever I need them.

· Baskets

My daughter has a lot of toys but we cleverly hide them away so our house doesn’t look like a toy shop. Baskets not only look great but can also hide a mountain of things. Buy a decorative basket, put a sheet inside and fill it with all your child’s toys. Tie it up or just twist the top so it keeps everything together. On top place a lovely woollen blanket or throw to hide the sheet and toys. This makes a great decorative piece just like you’ve seen in those stylish boutique hotels.

· Chest

If you don’t have money to buy storage units or cupboards, a nice vintage chest is a great way to store games, toys or even blankets. You can also use them as side table for when guests show up.

· Built in units

If you’re doing a renovation or redecorating it’s worth investing in good storage. Don’t go to branded cupboard designers, a good carpenter should be able to knock something bespoke up for half the price.

4. Practical and fuss-free interiors


I don’t like to compromise on my interior style so I still have velvet and fabric sofas. My house probably doesn’t seem that kid friendly but it is in so many ways.

· Sofas

Comfort and style are high up on my list. So, what can you do? The simple answer to this is to have a large throw or sheet to hand that can be easily stored under the sofa or in a cupboard. When you are nursing, or playing with your baby on the sofa cover it with the throw or sheet so that it’s protected. Let’s be honest there are going to be moments of projectile vomit and if you’re already a mum/dad the chances are you have enough poo stories.

· Flooring

If you’re redecorating consider the flooring carefully because this not only has a huge impact on the overall style of your home but we also know how messy kids can be… carpet may not be the smartest idea! In our house we have concrete floors and wooden floors. So, no matter how many accidents we have they’re easy to clean.



· Clutter free

Get rid of the clutter and simplify your space with just the essentials and decorative pieces you absolutely love. In our family room there is no coffee table in the middle and most of my decorative pieces are up high on the fireplace or on shelves. This way my daughter can run around freely without bumping her head on sharp edges. The other alternative is to have a soft ottoman.

· Different zones

We have areas that are no go kid’s zones. We have a great family room and Lyla’s bedroom for her many toys, but there are certain rooms that are out of bounds.

· Low cost interiors

It can be expensive prepping for a baby’s arrival but there are so many low cost options. Ikea is brilliant for nursery furniture, Primark Home and the baby section for your essentials and Next is great for affordable clothing.

5. Decorating your nursery


Decorating the nursery can be a lovely experience but I know for some parents it can be a bit overwhelming. Here are some of my tips to help ease the pain:

· Don’t worry about matching furniture I think it looks more eclectic and fun when you mix it up.

· Don’t be fooled into thinking you must buy nursery furniture. Other than the cot the rest can be furniture that you already own. For example, for my first baby I didn’t buy a changing station I simply used my vintage chest of drawers and placed a changing mat on top with all my essentials on display.

· Be bold and creative; think about what colours appeal to you and how you want the room to feel. The baby won’t notice the décor but you will and you’ll be spending a lot of time in the nursery.

· It’s important to create a relaxing environment so you will want to invest in a comfy chair – you don’t have to buy a nursing chair buy something you like that will outgrow your children. Soft rugs are always a good idea and don’t forget your favourite candle.

Sommer Pyne is an ambassador for Tommee Tippee.

The Tommee Tippee Perfect Prep Machine
The Giveaway

I have one Tommee Tippee Perfect Prep Machine to give away.  The Tommee Tippee Closer to Nature Perfect Prep machine makes a fresh bottle at just the right serving temperature in less than 2 minutes. It is specially designed to make preparing formula bottles quicker and more accurate, a boon for those night time feeds.

Please note the colour of the machine you receive may vary.

Entry is via the Rafflecopter widget below and the usual terms and conditions apply which you can find on my competitions page.  The giveaway ends at 11:59 pm on Sunday 18th June.



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Good Luck.

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Get ready for the great outdoors this summer with Milton (giveaway)

Festival and camping season is approaching as is, hopefully, the warmer weather. And if you are taking your little ones with you, hygiene is even more important.

Milton, the UK's number one sterilising and hygiene expert has a great range of travel essentials and read on because there's a giveaway coming up.

woman camping blowing bubbles outside her tent

It can be a nightmare ensuring that your kids' feeding equipment is properly sterilised but it's easy to use the trusted Milton Cold Water Method even away from the safety of your own home. Milton is clinically proven to kill 99.9% of germs, including bacteria, fungi and viruses, leaving items sterile, and keeping nasty bugs at bay.

Here's what you can use.

The Milton Solo Travel Steriliser is 2-in-1 microwave or cold water steriliser, ideal for sterilising when on the go. It cleans and sterilises bottles, teethers, plastic toys, breastfeeding equipment and other small baby equipment from 2 minutes in the microwave and in 15 minutes for cold water. RRP: £10.99.

The Milton Combi Microwave or Cold Water Steriliser - not only will this clean and sterilise bottles from 2 minutes in the microwave, you can also take it camping because it can be used for cold water sterilisation, killing up to 99.9% of bacteria in just 15 minutes.  Back home, it's small enough to fit into most microwaves but will take up to 5 bottles from any brand. RRP: £24.99

Practical and portable, Milton Sterilising Tablets are ideal to use when travelling. Made up with regular tap water, items are sterilised in just 15 minutes and stay sterile in the solution for 24 hours – meaning you can sterilise baby’s feeding equipment again and again. RRP: 2.46/ 28 tablets.

Milton Sterilising Fluid (500ml/£2.35) is a camping essential, as not only can it be used to sterilise baby’s feeding equipment, but you can also use it to clean the following:

· Outside of tents and gazebos
· Caravans inside and out
· Camp kitchens, even the outside kind exposed to all weathers
· Paddling pools

Camping is tremendous fun but let’s face it, it can get pretty messy so keep you family safe and well with Milton’s range of hygiene products.

Banish mucky fingers with Milton Antibacterial Hand Gel. Ideal for keeping hands clean and fresh when you are on the go and even when in the middle of a field! Kills 99.9% of germs in seconds, non-sticky and dries quickly. With an added moisturising agent to protect the skin, the gel is gentle, with a pleasant fragrance. RRP £2.20/100ml.

New and improved Milton Antibacterial Surface Wipes with ‘no rinse’ & food safe formula means parents can use them to wipe clean soothers, teats, teething rings plates and cutlery without worrying about the need to rinse afterwards. The formula is bleach free, preservative free and fragrance free, they kill germs quickly and leave no residue or odour so they are perfect for disinfecting babies’ small accessories as well as their general environment including high chairs, potties, changing mats, car seats, and buggy chairs/handles. RRP £2.19.

The Giveaway
If you would like to try a selection of Milton products for your next family camping trip or a solo festival adventure, enter my giveaway to win the following:-

Milton Combi Steriliser 

Milton Combi Steriliser

& a Milton Hygiene Kit comprising 

*Milton Antibacterial Surface Spray
*Milton Antibacterial Surface Wipes
*Milton Antibacterial Hand Gel 
*Milton Washing Up Liquid

Milton Hygiene Kit


Entry is via the Rafflecopter widget below and the giveaway ends on 14th June at 11:59 pm.  Terms and conditions apply which can be found on my Competitions Page.


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Monday 15 May 2017

Review: Childcare.co.uk - A Safer Way To Find Your Babysitter

The thing about being an older stay at home mum is that it's pretty difficult, ironically, to find childcare.  No, it's not just a problem affecting working parents.

The Husband works away much of the time and my parents, being in their late 70's do what they can to have the children but, as you know, kids can be quite exhausting and I don't like to ask them to babysit at night.

Baby boy with a blue dummy in his playpen

I have no other close family nearby to call upon so if the Husband and I do want to escape for a quiet child-free meal or a date night, finding a great babysitter is really important.

This is even more important if it's your first time hiring a babysitter as you venture back into the adult world after possible months of seclusion surrounded by nappies and Milton.

It's always tempting, of course, to pay a couple of quid to a teenager to sit for you.  I used to earn my pocket money this way when I was about 14 but the children I minded were two doors up from my parents' house and their parents were friends of the family.

I have never been confident that a teenager would be able to cope in the event of a medical emergency and, in any case, it seems a bit unfair to put them in that situation in the first place.

I cannot find any UK law which is definitive in terms of a legal minimum age for babysitters but here is what the children's charity, the NSPCC has to say on the subject of leaving children at home alone.  They advise that children under 13 should not be left at home alone for long periods and children under 16 should not be put in charge of younger children.

I am sure most parents wouldn't even consider doing this but as the long summer holidays approach and stressed parents have to juggle work and family, the temptation to leave kids on their own "for a bit" seems to increase.

Whilst there is no minimum age at which UK children can be legally left on their own, the law doesn't specify how old someone needs to be to babysit either.  BUT, if the babysitter is under 16 then you, as a parent, remain legally responsible for your child's safety.

Be aware too, that the Children and Young Persons Act allows parents in England and Wales to be prosecuted for wilful neglect if they leave a child unsupervised "in a manner likely to cause unnecessary suffering or injury to health". That can cost you a fine or even up to 10 years' imprisonment. Similar legislation also exists in Scotland and Northern Ireland.

It also turns out that there is a whole host of things you need to check before you worry about providing tea, coffee and biscuits to your new babysitter or childminder.

Depending on the nature of their employment with you, you need to check their qualifications, insurances and even whether they have a valid driving licence if they are going to be driving your little ones anywhere.

Then there's the DBS check (for England and Wales).  These were previously known as a CRB check (Criminal Records Bureau), but are now known as Disclosure & Barring checks.

These provide information about whether an individual has a criminal conviction or has been charged with a criminal conviction which has now expired.  Anyone who works with children should have one so it's one of the first things you should be asking to see from your prospective babysitter.

So where do you find a suitably qualified babysitter and how do you vet them?

A great way to find a suitable babysitter is to use a service such as Childcare.co.uk which is the UK's largest online community of parents, childcare providers, schools and private tutors.


I am a member of their service and have used this successfully a couple of times to find good babysitters close to me.

Basically, their service allows parents to search for local childcare services such as babysitters, registered childminders, nannies, private tutors and nurseries using their postcode search facility.

This gives you an idea an idea of how close the childcare provider is to your home and you can then read the childcare provider's individual profile to find out more about them.

As a member you can also post a 'job' - a brief post about your requirements - to which interested babysitters can respond.  They can email you or telephone you if you have left your number in your 'job post'.

You can register for free and add a profile advertising your childcare/tutor requirements.

Here's an excerpt from my profile to give you an idea.



You choose whether to be a free member or whether to pay for Gold Membership.

As a free member you can read and reply to messages that have been sent to you from gold members. You can also send messages to gold members and view their direct contact details. As a free member, however, you have to wait for a response to your profile whilst Gold Membership allows you to contact childcare providers immediately using their secure private messaging system.

Gold members can also receive messages from free members and see their direct contact details if they have chosen to add these (email and telephone number).

Gold membership comes with a raft of other benefits such as 30 minutes free legal advice on childcare and family issues, access to 100 free online training courses, online access to Creative Steps magazine and free Tastecard membership.

Currently the fee for Gold Membership is £24.99 per month or £129.99 per year.

There are no booking or agency fees and you pay your babysitter directly.  You will find an indication of their hourly rates in their profile.

You can also check to see if parents have written reviews for their childcare providers and tutors.

If there is any downside to paying for Gold Membership, it is that once you have found your babysitter or childcare provider you may find that you don't use the service again until you need another one.  It is easy to find that 6 months have passed and you haven't visited the site.

BUT, in terms of being able to find a childcare provider quickly, Childcare.co.uk is excellent.  It just depends whether you feel you will make full use of the extra benefits Gold membership provides. You may find free membership suffices.

Once you have found your sitter, however, be aware that it is your responsibility to interview them and to thoroughly check their qualifications - for example request references and a copy of their DBS check.

This means you will still need to set aside some time to meet them.  I would never dream of letting someone who has never met my children babysit them!

So you will need to be organised and, if possible, start searching for your childcare well in advance of your special event.  This is a bit of a pain if you just want to sneak off to a quiet country pub with your husband but it has to be done.

You will find lots of helpful information, including a checklist to work your way through on Childcare.co.uk's site.

To be frank, when there is a resource such as this to guide you through the increasingly complex maze of regulations surrounding hiring a trusted childcare provider, not using a site like this is simply not worth the risk.

Yes, you still have do to much of the work such as telephoning the babysitter's referees to double check references or checking that your prospective childminder has a valid paediatric First Aid certificate but when it comes to your children's safety is there such as thing as too much work?

You may well find your ideal babysitter is just a mile away.

Find out more at Childcare.co.uk.

*PR collaboration, however, I am already an existing member of Childcare.co.uk
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Saturday 13 May 2017

6 Things Children Learn In Dance Class That Aren't Dancing

When I was young I used to love my ballet lessons.  It was a discipline I learned and studied up until the age of 16 and I honestly believe the effects it had on my posture and shape have lasted till today.

No wonder then that ballet is undergoing a sort of renaissance, particularly among older dancers and barre work-outs are springing up all over the country.

Caitlin is currently studying for her Grade 3 Royal Academy of Dance and adores her ballet, not least because she has a kind and patient teacher, Mrs Nicola Peros, who really wills her pupils to succeed. 

There's no doubt that girls love the dance-wear, the ribbons, the shoes and the tutus but leading dancewear provider, Dancewear Central has uncovered that there’s so much more to dance classes than meets the eye!

On the surface, all parents may see is writing endless cheques, taxiing to and from lessons several times a week, buying shoes and leotards, and sewing costumes. But the reality is that children get so much more from attending dance lessons than the technical skills, so parents are getting far more value for money than they initially think!

With this in mind, Dancewear Central spoke to dance experts across the country to discover the biggest benefits of dancing, and why there’s more to classes than meets the eye.

1. Patience

Children aren’t the most patient creatures in the world – any parent can attest to that. And the younger they are the less patient they seem to be! Throw an exciting dance class into the mix – where they get to run around and burn off that excess energy – and it suddenly becomes harder to keep them still.

Dancers, both professional and amateur, constantly have to wait their turn, whether they’re moving across a stage, free-styling or demonstrating an individual move. Knowing when it’s your turn to move and then to be still and quiet while another has their go is a skill we use long into adulthood.

The sooner children learn when to take their turn, the sooner they’ll learn to interact better with others. Conflicts will be reduced and their social skills will blossom.

2. Confidence

As children learn to dance, hone their technique and take a performance from start to finish, their confidence grows. Add that to gaining a better sense of their bodies and feeling more comfortable in their own skin, and their self-esteem will skyrocket. They’ll learn how to express themselves, which is really what dancing is all about, and it’s what separates it from other physical activities. It gives kids a physical outlet for their emotions, a place to be themselves, and they’re encouraged to be proud of that.

Says Nicola Peros, principal at Nicola Peros Ballet "The first thing that children experience when they start ballet is bravery. They aren't always with friends and they don't know the teacher.

They learn discipline, they are guided and encouraged to learn the steps which give them skills and confidence. They gain a sense of self-confidence and pride in their bodies and what they can accomplish.

They learn how to work to get what they want out of their performances."

Johanna Hadley, teacher at Janet Lomas School of Dancing, says that increased confidence through dance is something children will take with them into later life:

“I myself have seen students who were once shy and withdrawn grow in confidence – in later years they have blossomed into beautiful dancers, happy and willing to perform in front of large audiences.

“A student who has regularly walked into a dance examination room or performed on stage will be unfazed by the university admissions process, job interviews and public speaking. Dance teaches the ability to present oneself in an assured and professional manner, and the weekly attendance of these classes demonstrates both dedication and commitment.”

Capezio Cross Over Top from Dancewear Central
Capezio Cross Over Top
3. The way the body works

Kids are curious creatures, and they love to learn about the world around them. Put them in a class where their body does wonderful things like moving to music, and they’ll be eager to learn more about how they actually do it. And this can stand them in good stead for later life.

Naomi Wallen, owner of Dance Matters, a community dance school says that learning about the body through dance can influence children’s future path: 

“When you know how a body jumps, you can jump higher, farther, quicker. Introducing the concepts of anatomy when the children are young will allow them to build upon this foundation in the future. They will learn that there is more to their bodies than what they see in the mirror. 

“If a child becomes intrigued by their body, they may develop a life path for themselves. I know former dancers who are now doctors, nurses, midwives, physiotherapists and pharmacists. Additionally, if a child learns how amazing their body is, their relationship with their body can be a positive one. Body image is a difficult part of the lives of children and young adults – any opportunity to embrace the brilliance of our bodies is worth the work.”

4. Improved social skills

Dancing isn’t all about the individual – even in more solo disciplines such as ballet or tap. As part of their class, children will be asked to communicate and cooperate with their fellow students, both in pairs and in groups. For shy children, in particular, dancing can be a really big help and encourage them to come out of their shell as they talk to others and make new friends. 

Debbi Fullilove believes that people often underestimate that dance can take soft skills straight back to basics: 

“Dance is about encouraging children to have fun, while increasing basic core skills that can benefit them in future life. This includes verbal communication through socialising with their peers, listening skills, and also encouraging them to take ideas and develop them.”

Caitlin practising ballet in the garden

5. Friendship

Improved social skills are just one branch of dance, and dancing often requires children to work together. Making friends comes easy to children – they seem to be able to talk to anyone and at any time! So place them in a room full of similarly aged children where their only job is to move to music, and they’re bound to interact and before you know it they’ve formed a bond.

Naomi Wallen believes that friendship is one of the biggest benefits that children take out of the dance studio:

“They learn how to be friends with people who aren’t the same as them. Our classes are mixed gender. Some have a range of ages, and some dancers have learning disabilities. The children discover how community is a gorgeous thing and how role models can be found in unexpected places. 

Learning how to socialise with others from an early stage is a vital part of a child’s cognitive development. Dance brings together children from a variety of backgrounds and personalities, creating an environment outside of the child’s comfort zone. Children are encouraged to learn to adapt, connect and communicate in new ways. They learn to build trust and effective relationships.”

Roch Valley Funky Dance Hold All from Dancewear Central
Roch Valley Funky Dance Hold All 
6. A healthy body

Children weren’t made to sit still, but watching television or playing video games can turn from an occasional treat into a daily habit. Dancing gets them out of the house on a regular basis, and while you may not be looking for your kids to lose weight, it helps to keep their heart, and brain, healthy.

Giving children the confidence and encouragement to move while they’re young will give them a taste for physical activity that they carry with them into later life. Whether they become a professional dancer or not, they might continue with amateur classes as an adult or migrate to a completely different sport – it doesn’t matter as long as they move.

Debbi Fullilove, who owns Yorkshire-based Dance Stars UK, shared her thoughts:

“Encouraging children to dance is much more than just the physical element, exercise and getting children away from an indoor environment. Children have a thirst to learn and develop, and dance – from musical theatre to street dance – is a great way of helping them grow and come out of their shell.

“In a day and age where many children are scared of how they may be accepted, there is nothing more rewarding as a dance teacher than seeing them flourish.”

I would heartily recommend ballet as a discipline for kids.  In an age where technology is seeming taking over, it's great to find something which creates health, discipline and an appreciation for music - without the use of an iPad and, in my experience, the skills you learn are with you forever.

Further information about the Nicola Peros Ballet School which serves Cardiff and Barry is available at www.nicolaperosballet.com.

For a great selection of dance wear go to www.dancewearcentral.co.uk.
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Thursday 11 May 2017

Quick and easy mid-week lunch ideas when the kids are at home

The summer holidays are fast approaching and while the idea of six weeks free from school runs, after school activities and ferrying Caitlin and Ieuan back and forth to their various engagements is appealing, I have to find fun activities to stop them crawling the walls and coax them away from their beloved iPads.

Vegetables sauteeing in a frying pan on a stove

The holidays also mean I need to whizz up extra lunches mid-week, which got me thinking – let’s find some quick and easy lunch ideas that the kids can get involved in too. Children love getting dirty in the kitchen and gain a real sense of responsibility and pride when they tuck into their produce, plus it’s something we can do together. Check out our favourite fast but healthy meal ideas we’ll be creating over the holidays.

Homemade baked beans on toast

Baked beans are a British staple and homemade ones are so much more delicious than the tinned variety, as well as being simple to make. Toast a slice of your favourite freshly baked bread, cover with lashings of butter et voila. Lunch is served.

Ingredients:
1 large onion
1 red pepper
1 garlic clove
2 x 400 g tins of beans (borlotti, kidney, black eyed)
2 x 400g tins of chopped tomatoes
Balsamic vinegar

Method:
Soften the onion and pepper in a splash of olive oil before adding the garlic. Add your chosen beans and chopped tomatoes to the pan and simmer on a low heat for 10 minutes until the mixture has thickened. Season with a splash of balsamic vinegar, salt and pepper.

Beefburgers in buns

Homemade beef burgers and chips

Everyone craves comfort food from time to time and burgers and chips are a real family favourite in our household. Homemade burgers beat shop bought ones every time –they’re easy to make and can easily be freezed before cooking should you have leftover mixture. Team with some crispy sweet potato fries and serve with a fresh, green salad.

Ingredients:
400g premium lean beef mince
1 clove garlic
1/2 medium red onion
1/2 tsp olive oil
1/8 tsp dried oregano
McCain Sweet Potato Fries
Salad to garnish

Method:
Combine the minced beef and garlic in a bowl and season with salt and pepper. Form into four 1cm thick patties and grill for five minutes on each side. Meanwhile thinly slice the onion, sprinkle with oregano and grill until slightly brown. Place the patties in bread rolls and top with the onion, adding fries and salad on the side.

Falafels and salad

Falafel wraps

Falafel make for really healthy and tasty fast food, packed with protein and lots of exciting flavours. Serve with soft tortilla bread and load up your homemade wraps with charred veggies, salsa and hummous.

Ingredients:
1 x 400 g tin of mixed beans
1 x 400 g tin of chickpeas
1 lemon
1 tablespoon harissa
1 heaped teaspoon allspice
1 heaped tablespoon plain flour
1 bunch of fresh coriander

Method: Drain the chickpeas and beans and place them in a food processor along with all the other ingredients. Blitz until smooth before removing the mixture and shaping into around eight patties about 1.5 cm thick. Fry the falafel in a little olive oil until golden brown and crispy and then get busy loading up your wraps with your chosen fillings.



Macaroni cheese
Macaroni cheese is a super easy and budget friendly meal, perfect for hungry teenagers and parents alike. Smooth and creamy, this is a big hit with the little ones too. Again, if you make too much, this dish can easily be frozen and reheated later in the week.

Ingredients:
250g macaroni
1 tbsp butter
1 tbsp plain flour
450ml milk
180g Cathedral City Mature Cheddar (grated)
1 tsp black pepper
1 tsp mustard powder

Method:
Cook the macaroni according to the packet instructions, drain and place to the side. On a low heat, melt the butter and add the plain flour, black pepper and mustard powder, stirring all the time. Add the milk a little at a time using a whisk to prevent lumps and bring to the boil to thicken the sauce. Add a big handful of grated cheese before mixing in the drained pasta. Place in a large oven proof dish, sprinkle with more cheese and bake for 10 minutes at 180C and voila, lunch is served!
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Wednesday 10 May 2017

Not Just Mum: Staying You When You Become a Parent

Becoming a parent changes your life. There's no getting around that, and you're not going to be exactly the same person again. A lot of people will pledge to never change or to be cool parents, but they soon discover it doesn't turn out that way. However, just because being a parent changes you, it doesn't mean you have to become someone else entirely. And you certainly don't have to be just a parent. Many mums worry about losing themselves when they have their first child and becoming nothing but a mum. Even though being a mum is part of your identity, you don't want it to be your entire identity. A new baby (or an adopted older child) can be all consuming, but you can still hold onto who you are.

Keeping Up Your Social Life

One of the things that are immediately at risk when you become a parent is your social life. And it's one of the worst times to lose it. Being a new mum can be lonely, especially when leaving the house can be a struggle. When you become a parent, keeping up with friends who aren't parents can be difficult too. There are places you can't go to anymore, and they might not enjoy spending time with your child all the time. A large challenge of maintaining your social life is simply finding the time to see people.

So what can you do about these things? How do you stay in touch with your friends and spend time with them now you're a parent? One thing to keep in mind is that it's a good time to find out who your real friends are. While you should make an effort to continue being a good friend, your friends also need to be understanding of your new situation. You might find yourself getting closer to fellow parents. Another thing to think about is getting time with just your friends - no baby in tow. It gives you time for yourself, and your friends get to see you without everything being about kids.



From Public Domain Pictures (Petr Kratochvil)

Making New Friends

Becoming a parent can mean that you lose friends, or that the dynamics of your friendships change. It's a good idea to consider finding new friends, not just who are parents but who share your interests too. Your new friends won't necessarily even be parents, but they're friends you make when you're a parent, which can make a difference. It's sad when you lose touch with your pre-kids friends, but if you're at different stages in your life, it's perfectly natural. New friends could fit into your life much better because you're not trying to change existing relationships to fit.

Continuing Your Career

Continuing to build your career becomes tough when you're a parent. If you take time out of work, it can take years to get back to the same point in your career you were at pre-children. Having kids can affect how easy it is to grow your salary and reach more senior positions, and unfortunately, it affects women much more than men. If you have hopes of continuing your career on the same path, there are lots of things you'll need to do.

One essential thing is to know your rights at work when it comes to parental leave. If you look at http://www.elliswhittam.com/anatomy-of-a-maternity-leave-policy you can see what sort of things need to be in a maternity leave policy. You also need to think about how to balance parenting and work. One thing to consider is whether it's you doing all the "balancing", or if your partner has to compromise too. Who leaves work and picks the kids up from school if they're ill, for example?




From Flickr (Batle Group)

Have Time to Yourself

Getting time to yourself is important if you want to keep your identity as an individual. It gives you time to enjoy hobbies, or just to relax and get some peace. To get some time to yourself, however, you need someone to look after your child. If you're sharing parenting duties, you've got someone who can help right away. If not, you might have family members or friends who can help out. If you want time to yourself, it does sometimes mean having to face anxiety about leaving your child with another person. It can be hard, but it's also healthy. Time on your own could be at home or out of the house.

Becoming a mum doesn't mean you have to lose yourself. It does change you, but you can still be an individual, as well as a parent.
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Tuesday 9 May 2017

How To Take Control Of Your Family Finances

Your family’s financial health should be one of your top priorities. Whether you have one child or five children, raising them all the way up to age 21 can be expensive. If you want to ensure that you have healthy finances for the future, here's what you need to do.

Put Money Into Savings And Forget About It 

If you don't have money in a savings account, you’re effectively living paycheck to paycheck. You should be putting money into a savings account and forgetting about it, ready for a rainy day.

Choosing a savings account with a good interest rate is best. You can also decide to invest money in things like stocks, property, and shares, but you need to be prepared to wait for your returns.

Find Ways To Bring In More Money 

How can you bring in more money? There are so many ways you can bring in money using the internet. However, you can also rent out your driveway, sell things you no longer need, and do other things offline to ensure you’re topping up your earnings.

Create A Budget And Stick To It 

Being wealthy is not only about how much money you bring in, but how much of it you can keep. Make sure you create a family budget and stick to it. This budget may need to change depending on different circumstances, but you should have a good knowledge of your numbers to begin.

The following infographic can give you more helpful tips on what to do!


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Monday 8 May 2017

Mindfulness for Kids with the Mindful Monsters

It's Mental Health Awareness Week and what better time to teach your kids the benefits of Mindfulness whilst supporting disability charity Scope at the same time?

Caitlin & Ieuan with Scope's Mindful Monsters Cards

Scope's mission is to make this country a place where disabled people have the same opportunities as everyone else. They provide support, information and advice to more than a quarter of a million disabled people and their families every year, whilst raising awareness of the barriers facing disabled people and helping them build resilience in their day-to-day lives.

Mindful Monsters cards from the charity Scope

They have developed Mindful Monsters, a set of activity cards, which gives parents a new and exciting way to help their little ones develop important life skills through exploring mindfulness, while spending quality time together. The cards are quick and easy activities parents and children can do anywhere.

Research shows mindfulness in families has many benefits:

· More resilience in day-to-day life
· Improved focus
· Better understanding of their emotions
· A sense of calm
· More positive thinking – promoting kindness and gratitude

The cards are brilliant to have on hand to whip out when a tantrum threatens (adult or child!) to help take a moment and change focus - to get everybody back on track without an emotional maelstrom!

As parents and carers know, children often struggle to understand their emotions - which affects both their behaviour and that of the adults around them.  Mindful Monsters are a great way of calming everybody down.

It's a far healthier approach, too, than resorting to sugary snacks and other forms of food related bribery.

There are 4 Mindful Monsters who each offer a slightly different type of activity.

There is Thinky, who helps kids with their concentration, Giggles, who likes to promote kindness and gratitude, Snug who teaches relaxation and destressing and Sparky who likes to get creative without leaving glitter bombs or mess.

Each monster offers a range of activities in their particular area - so Snug may ask you to concentrate on your breath by seeing if you can breathe like a snake, or a whale (tricky that one).  Giggles might ask you to pay someone a compliment and see how good that makes you feel.  Thinky suggests going for a walk to somewhere you know well and spotting three new things, whilst Sparky might get you to pull your scariest monster face opposite someone else without laughing.

Each activity is well thought out and fun and would work with any age.  The Husband reports that pulling monster faces was the ice breaker activity at a recent conference.  (Who says IT people don't have a sense of fun .....).

Caitlin (9) and Ieuan (8) both thought the cards were fun although I think it helps to have had a conversation about mindfulness with your kids first - and if you can embrace it as a family so much the better.  Otherwise it's a little 'left field' to ask a grumpy 8 year old to stand on one leg when you've just upset him (again) by restricting his access to Roblox.

To get the cards, you need to sign up and donate just £7.50 monthly (postage is included).  Then you'll receive your starter pack for the first month, and then extra cards and a newsletter each month following that with more activities from the Mindful Monsters.

The welcome pack (which fits easily through your letterbox) contains an introductory booklet, some fun stickers and your first 7 monster cards. There are 84 cards to collect in total.

The cards are of a decent thickness to withstand lots of use and feature the appropriate monster on the front together with a reminder of the particular focus - e.g. creativity.

You can make the most of your donation by gift-aiding it to allow Scope to claim another 25% from the Government and 70p in the pound goes towards supporting disabled people and their families.

I think this is a really creative scheme which gives a little extra to donors and builds a long term relationship with them.

So do your bit and seek out a little extra calm with the Mindful Monsters.

Caitlin & Ieuan Hobbis with Scope's Mindful Monsters Cards

Find out more at www.mindfulmonsters.co.uk or www.scope.org.uk where you'll find other ways to donate and support this great charity.
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Saturday 6 May 2017

Thumb Chucks - The New Fidget Toy On The Block

Fidget toys are everywhere and whilst my two love their Fidget Spinners, they have discovered an equally fun alternative - Thumb Chucks. 



Fidget toys were apparently first designed for children with autism to help them develop fine motor skills. Recently kids (and grown ups) have been starting to use them with claims being made that they promote focus and concentration, thereby reducing stress. Those of us who worked in offices in the 80's will remember the appearance of stress balls which were less interactive but arguably achieved the same thing.

Thumb Chucks, however, are a little different from Fidget Spinners.  For a start they light up and they are tipped to be the new yo yo with a number of different techniques and tricks you can learn. 

Fidget Toys #thumbchucks #fidgetspinners
They are easy to carry and Zing Toys, who make these, suggest they are suitable for "festivals, going out, killing time on the tube, hanging out, waiting for friends and challenging your mates to the latest tricks"  You can certainly do more with them than just watch them spin.

Thumb Chucks – Control the Roll!

Whilst the tricks are easy to learn though, they are quite challenging to master. When you have mastered each trick you can uploading your videos online to unlock new coloured, interchangeable belts that players can use to flaunt their skill status. Players upload and showcase tricks with special effects on social media with the Thumb Chucks App and watch new trick tutorials by the Thumb Chucks guru online.

Whilst Caitlin and Ieuan don't have too much patience for complicated tricks,  they did like Thumb Chucks.  Here's their take on both Thumb Chucks and Fidget Spinners.




Available from toy shops, retailers and online from Spring 2017 for £7.99 RRP. Recommended for ages 5 to 99+.

*PR samples were received for the purpose of this post
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Tuesday 25 April 2017

Summer's Coming & So Are The Bills!

As the weather warms up, we start to think about holidays.  Or rather the cost of having a holiday. Taking the kids out of school during term time to go on holiday is a highly contentious issue and it's something, personally I would not do without a very good reason.

Woman and her dog looking out over a beach

I'm not sure a fortnight in a theme park counts as a valuable life experience, which is often the justification put forward, although walking round Alton Towers wearing one of their transparent rain ponchos in a summer deluge probably does. I've not recovered from the last time.

So we parents have to grit our teeth and pay premium prices for holidays whilst trying to cut our cloth accordingly and hoping that nothing else comes along to add to the expense.

We're very fond of a staycation.  The UK is a beautiful country and, hands up, I haven't quite summoned up the courage to travel abroad with our two yet.  That day is fast approaching though as soon as I sort their passports out.

guards outside Windsor Castle, England

We try to budget carefully and make endless lists, not only of things to pack but potential expenses. We prefer self-catering where possible because it's great to have a base to relax in plus you don't have the cost of eating out every single night. There's a limit to the number of chicken nuggets and chips I can face in 7 days, although Ieuan can be prevailed upon to eat something green now and again.

Readers of this blog will know I'm a big fan of Skint Dad's Penny Challenge which helps you build a pot for Christmas by saving a little each day (1p on day 1, £1.30 on day 130 and so on).  By following this system you can save around £677 per year but that's for the festive season and it still leaves the challenge of budgeting for July and August.

Added to which the MOT on my beloved Skoda Roomster is due, along with an annual service and possibly new tyres.  If you're going to be doing a lot of driving this summer you may need to get your car checked over to see if it's safe for all those summer trips.

Our garden wall is about to cave in thanks to rain and subsidence and we have a list of DIY projects as long as your arm since the house was built in 1929 and is beginning to show its age.

The Husband has been promising (or is it threatening) to convert the garage into a gym to put in a treadmill or a rowing machine.  And Ieuan is very enthused by the idea of having a punch bag and space to practise his Tae Kwon-Do.

None of this would be possible without knocking the existing garage down and starting from scratch which not be an inexpensive construction project!

Our approach to spending on the house is to squirrel away whatever cash we can in an ISA, use these funds to pay for the construction project (or whatever) and then start saving again.

A sensible approach is to talk to your bank, of course, or your credit card providers to see if existing credit card debt can be amalgamated or transfered with a balance transfer deal and hopefully a lower interest rate.

Most of us know, by now, the way to cut expenditure and raise a bit of cash.  You know the kind of thing:-

* having a declutter and selling items on Ebay, Craigslist, Gumtree or your local car boot sale

* reducing unnecessary daily expenditure (yes you know you shouldn't be buying expensive coffees and should be taking your own lunch but it's so difficult to get into the groove, isn't it?)

* menu planning and budgeting for your food

* using comparison websites to check you are getting the best deals on your utilities, mobile and insurance deals

But how many of us actually do these things, even though we know we should. When the bills stack up we seem to be struck down by a kind of financial inertia!

Incidentally you can find plenty more ideas in my half yearly budget post.

Sometimes though, money is needed urgently and a pay day loan from a provider such as Cash Lady may fill the gap.  Prioritising the repayment of the loan is key however.

And once over the financial hump, so to speak, the best approach is to start saving for next year's major expenses now.

Easier said than done, but well worth the effort in terms of the stress control!

How do you budget for your summer holidays?

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Monday 24 April 2017

Make More Of Your Space With Kids' Bean Bags

One of the most popular seating options with children is kids bean bags which not only provide more comfort than a chair, but can be shifted around the house with ease – making them the perfect solution for when extra seating is needed at larger family gatherings.

Kids can use bean bags for gaming, playing, chatting, reading or just relaxing after a busy day. They're great to have when the kids' friends come over and are a lot of fun heaped together.  These days they come in a range of styles which makes co-ordinating them with kids' bedrooms and bedding a breeze.

Bean bags can be a lower cost option to flexing your seating arrangements and are also useful to make the most of smaller spaces.

Here are some of my favourites from family run business Children’s Rooms who stock everything you need to fully kit out and personalise children's bedrooms and playrooms.

Batman VS Superman Beanbag (£21.95)

An incredibly popular film with many little boys, this Batman VS Superman Bean Bag would take pride of place!

Batman v Superman Child's Bean Bag

Blue Cotton Beanbag (£14.95)

A more neutral bean bag to weather the common changes in ‘favourites’, this is a good quality bean bag which, with its plain styling, should give years of service.


Marvel Avengers Bean Cube (£21.95)

Something a little different, this Vibrant Bean Cube features Spiderman, Hulk, Captain America, Iron Man and Thor.

Vibrant Bean Cube featuring Marvel superheroes

My Little Pony Bean Bag (£21.95)

Ideal for little girls and a past firm favourite of Caitlin as it features Rainbow Dash.

My Little Pony Bean Bag Featuring Rainbow Dash


Peppa Pig Bean Bean Bag (£14.95)

And another firm favourite with the little ones....

Peppa Pig Bean Bag

Whilst bean bags may not be the best choice for long term seating in terms of posture and back support, there's no doubt that they can be incredibly useful to have about.

Particularly when you consider the cost of upgrading the family sofa instead!

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Review: Always Have Your Favourite Shows To Hand With The Amazon Fire TV Stick

You wouldn't expect Amazon to offer a product that wasn't a) innovative, b) well made and c) reasonably priced (eventually -  the launch price of the latest Kindle Fire was a bit of a shock).

And so it is with the very nifty Amazon Fire TV Stick with Alexa Voice Remote.

Amazon Fire TV Stick With Alexa Voice Remote

We were sent one to review from Maplin.co.uk and we opted for the Alexa Voice Remote version as we have recently purchased an Amazon Echo Dot and have been impressed with it.  Plus, not only have the kids had fun with it, it's company for me when they're at school and far less trouble than a pet.

Amazon Fire TV Stick with Alexa Voice Remote Box Cover

I should explain here that you don't need an Amazon Echo or Dot for this as the Fire TV Stick already has Alexa installed.

What does it do?

Basically the Fire TV Stick is a plug in and go way to access on demand TV and stream your favourite subscription TV shows and movies.

This is the second generation of the Fire TV Stick and with it you can access over 7000 apps, games and Alexa skills.

It has 8 GB of storage and 1 GB of memory for apps and games, a quad-core processor, plus 802.11ac Wi-Fi for fast streaming and smooth performance.

You can give Alexa commands such as "Launch Netflix" or "Skip ahead 5 minutes" and of course other commands such as "search for local restaurants" and "remind me why I had children again". Actually Alexa doesn't seem to be able to answer that one. She will, however, tell you a joke if you ask.

You can even pick up where you left off and bring hit shows and movies with you when you travel. All you do is plug your Fire TV Stick into a TV's HDMI port, connect to Wi-Fi and continue watching.

And you can quickly play your current favourites or find something new to watch from the home screen.

Connection

The Amazon Fire TV Stick connects via a USB cable to the HDMI port on your TV and the box contains a handy HDMI extender to improve Wi-Fi and remote performance.

Power up your Alexa Voice Remote by simply inserting the batteries and then complete the on-screen set up by selecting your Wi-Fi network from the networks displayed on the screen. You'll need your network password to hand.

Contents of the Amazon Fire TV Stick with Alexa Voice Remote box

There's a little voice button at the top of the Fire TV stick which allows you to ask Alexa to find your favourite TV show or movies.

And that's it. Simple, speedy and easy to understand.

Amazon Fire TV Stick with Alexa Voice Remote Home Screen

It's better with Amazon Prime

We have been members of Amazon Prime for several years now and not only do you get the unlimited one-day delivery, but you can watch thousands of movies and TV shows with Prime Video, listen ad-free to hundreds of hand-built playlists and access two million songs with Prime Music. You can also safely store an unlimited amount of photos. (Current fee is £79/year).

Trailer poster for Star Wars Rogue One on the Amazon Fire TV Stick

The Amazon Fire TV Stick has obviously been designed to complement this service and we found that whilst on-demand TV is free and services such as Netflix would obviously be covered by a separate subscription, lots of the Amazon programmes are free to Prime members but otherwise incur a charge (albeit generally a very reasonable one).

What if you already have a Freeview Digital Recorder?

Now if you have a Freeview Digital Recorder (we have a Humax) you might think you won't need one of these and, if all you watch is on-demand TV to catch up with your favourite shows with the occasional Netflix movie, then it may be a bit of a duplication.

Even so,  I found accessing programmes via the Fire TV Stick far quicker and easier than using the Humax remote.

DC Legends of Tomorrow Trailer Poster on Amazon Fire TV Stick

Take your favourite shows and movies with you

It is surely the portability of the Amazon Fire TV Stick that is one of its greatest strengths and for parents the ability to take their little ones' favourite shows with them will be a great help on holidays (you know on those rainy staycation days!) always assuming there is a compatible HDMI TV.

However annoying Spongebob Squarepants may be, he beats the sound of children bickering any day.

Or it's great if you work away on business or to make your uni digs feel a little more like home with the familiar films you love.

I was really impressed with the Amazon Fire TV Stick. It's simple enough for even the most technophobic to use. The instructions were clear and the buttons big enough for less agile fingers to cope with and there really is a vast choice of entertainment to choose from.

And for £39.99 it's a bit of a bargain.

You can find out more at Maplin.co.uk.

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