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Wednesday 12 April 2017

Reasons Why Your Brand Needs To Work With A Blogger

It seems bloggers are everywhere and in every niche.  Their influence grows daily across all market sectors and social media platforms.

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As marketing budgets dwindle and marketing directors are demanding measurable results, you might be wondering why you would deviate from the tried and tested promotional routes.

There are four very simple reasons why bloggers are an important part of your marketing mix.

*  We can talk direct to your customers and consumers and ask them direct questions which you may not be able to. This may be even more effective than running an expensive focus group.

*  Not only can we promote, but we can influence the creation of new products and services (sometimes even markets) by adopting yours or by using these in ways your product development team hadn't thought of

* We can push your product / service out there quicker than the more traditional methods of print advertising.  Ask us to review and promote and it can be turned around quickly - sometimes even in 24/48 hours.

* We offer incredible value for money when compared with other forms of promotion.

Make no mistake.  Bloggers are no longer the home-spun, frustrated creatives looking to make a little pocket money.  Many of us consider ourselves professionals and our blog is our job.

Mine certainly is after over 20 years experience as a senior marketer, and latterly marketing director of a large Welsh law firm before I took a career break to have my children.

I am fully conversant with all aspects of marketing and PR so I see things from both sides of the fence, so to speak.

There are, however, things you need to consider when working with a blogger.

The issue of blogger disclosure

Collaboration (aka sponsored posts) is a funny thing.  The rules about disclosure are a little vague in the UK, far vaguer than those set out by the Federal Trade Commission governing disclosure in the US.  Here there is guidance not only from Google but from the Advertising Standards Authority.

The ASA is a non-statutory organisation and so cannot interpret or enforce legislation. However, its code of advertising practice broadly reflects legislation in many instances. The ASA is not funded by the British government, but by a levy on the advertising industry.

Basically bloggers must make it clear to their readers that they have been paid to promote or endorse an item so that the reader can decide whether what they are reading is truly objective. Most bloggers wouldn't dream of misleading their audience, however, because what would be the point? A loss in credibility would be extremely damaging to their reputation.

Follow links vs nofollow links

There is constant discussion about follow and no-follow links in the various blogger forums.

Google does NOT like paid for follow links because it considers, reasonably, that paid promotion gives a product or service an unfair advantage by sending extra 'link juice ' (viewing figures) that a rival might not be able to afford.

Some bloggers will accept follow links and some won't touch them with a barge pole, figuring that link insertion is for SEO purposes and that has little to do with the creativity of their writing.

Others reason that a 'proper' collaboration will be no-follow links because any brand / PR worth their salt will recognise that Google may apply a penalty not only to the blogger but to the brand itself if caught out.

What do bloggers do?

There's also a lack of understanding about what bloggers actually DO when they put a post together.

For example there is

- content creation (researching, editing, proof-reading)
- time spent testing, (reviewing, cooking, crafting, reading etc)
- photography (scouting locations, shooting, editing, often in different formats depending on the social media platform)
- social media promotion across multiple platforms, (commenting, responding to comments)

When you look at it like that you can see why lots of the old 'bung a few quid at a blogger for a quick post' approaches are starting to fall distinctly out of favour as bloggers recognise their worth and charge accordingly.

What you are also paying for, alongside the blogger's expertise, is access to their audience who may be far more engaged than those seeing your product flash by on a billboard on their daily commute, or flickering in the sidebar of their hotmail account.

Any good marketer knows that building brand awareness takes consistent investment, effort and monitoring, and working with bloggers can give you an extra, and a distinct advantage.

The problem brands and PRs face is that, as things currently stand, it is very difficult to compare bloggers on a like for like basis.  This means that metrics such as Moz's Domain Authority or Majestic's Trust Flow are relied upon to give a sense of the blog's quality.  These are, however, a moveable feast and fluctuate regularly.

These metrics, along with stats from Google Analytics which shows unique monthly visitors (how many individuals visit a blog each month) and page views, build a picture of how successful a blog is.

Then there are independent ranking systems such as that run by Tots100 which ranks parenting blogs, lifestyle blogs and travel blogs.

The various ranking systems have their own algorithms and so you can't really compare these on a like for like basis.

And of course, they generally rely on the blogger having added themselves to the list. There may be a gem of a blogger out there who hasn't registered with any ranking system.

Lastly there is the size of the blogger's social media following and their email lists. My social media following is around 22,000 across all platforms and I work hard to keep each audience engaged and with appropriate content for that platform.  You would need to pick the blogger with the right number of followers on the social media platforms most important to your business.

So how much do bloggers charge?

This will depend on the metrics mentioned above and, in particular, their viewing / user figures. Blogging is a community based activity so you can be sure that everyone tends to know who charges what.  That said, there is no hard and fast charging scale.

My charges currently start at around the £100 mark for a basic sponsored post for copy that is submitted to me and my prices rise depending on whether I am writing the copy myself and the amount of additional work and promotion I am expected to do.  You may, however, find bloggers at the top end of their niche easily charging much more than this because of the size of audience they can command.

The 'Free' Guest Post

Often, less scrupulous agencies will try to get a blogger to post a 'guest post' for free on the promise of exposure for them on their brand or client's website.

That 'guest post' of course will include a follow link or two and bloggers are wise to this method of trying to secure a free advertisement on their blog.  A good blogger may occasionally accept a guest post if the content is of particular relevance to their blog or they want content with a fresh eye and a different viewpoint but if your initial approach to a blogger is to try to 'wangle a free guest post', then you may well receive short shrift.

Budgeting for bloggers

Often PRs seem to be given a fixed amount which they then split up to get a certain number of bloggers per promotion - e.g. £600 gets you 10 bloggers at £60.

This seems to be a very random way of doing it.  You would surely get far better value by picking two bloggers with engaged audiences in your sector for £300 each who you know would do a great job than randomly assigning small bits of budget to bloggers whose output may be of varying quality.

And wouldn't it be better to build a long term relationship with those bloggers so that there is two way dialogue between not only you and the blogger, but their audience as well?

Despite the fact that there have been bloggers for years, the industry (if that is the right word) is very much in its infancy with everyone feeling their way to see what works and what doesn't.

This is why collaboration should be a long term thing not just a one-off for a particular campaign, the results of which may not even be measured.

If you are considering working with bloggers then they should form part of your longer term tactical marketing plan - and their input often sits closer to advertising than it does to PR.

Budgeting for blogger input as part of your advertising strategy may be a far more practical approach than trying to shoehorn it into your PR consultancy fees whilst trying to keep the cost as low as possible.

Working with great bloggers should be considered as an investment, not just another line on the marketing expenditure spreadsheet.

If you want to know more about how a blogger could help you, then get in touch.  My contact details and all my statistics are on my Media page or email linda.hobbis@motherdistracted.co.uk.

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Thursday 3 November 2016

Starting A Blog? Here's What I Invested In

It seems like everyone is starting a blog these days - they are everywhere! One of the reasons for this is that it is possible to earn at least a decent supplementary income from your writing - and some bloggers manage to make blogging their full time job.



Part of the appeal is that blogging has few start-up costs - you just need a laptop, an idea of what you are going to write about and your target audience.

I started my blog for free on Google's Blogger.com and I've been there ever since, although many bloggers prefer the versatility of Wordpress.

It's amazing, actually when I think about the skills I have had to learn to blog.  Many of these were already under my belt from my background in marketing but here's just some of the things that bloggers do daily.  It's easy for many newbie bloggers to assume you write a few articles and then are inundated with freebies but it's really not like that!

Core blogging skills

* writing, editing, proof-reading
* market research - particularly in to the keywords which are likely to drive readers to your site
* photography and photo-editing
* video production
* branding and design
* accounting and tax (if you earn money from your blogging you must declare it to HMRC
* social media - creating and maintaining your accounts and using them to promote your blog posts
* pitching to and working with brands
* negotiating your fees
* advertising and PR
* statistical analysis - you need to understand where your traffic comes from, who is driving it and why

As you can see, blogging is not dissimilar to running a full time marketing department.

There are costs involved though, if you want to improve the professionalism of your site.  These are the things I have invested in.

* a decent laptop with a good sized screen and keyboard.  I'm a trained touch-typist (from my personal assistant days) and I can't type quickly on a teeny tiny keyboard.

* a custom URL from Godaddy.com. Blogger will give you a blog address which has .blogspot in which lots of PR companies don't like. Buying a custom URL - mine is motherdistracted.co.uk - allows you to look more professional whilst still retaining the security of having someone else host your site.

* a subscription to Buffer - an application which allows you to schedule your social media posts.  I love Buffer because it is easy to use but there are a number of rival apps like Hootsuite.

* a subscription to Boardbooster - an application which will repin your pins to Pinterest and shuffle your boards for you to gain maximum exposure.

* a subscription to Picmonkey - a genius photo editing application which allows you to edit individual photos and create collages.  Some bloggers prefer a rival application called Canva

* business cards (I got mine from Vistaprint) to give out a bloggers conferences and meet-ups

* a mobile phone with a decent camera - lots of bloggers go the whole hog and invest in expensive cameras but I've managed to get by with a smartphone.  The Husband gave me his iPhone 6S when he upgraded recently and I love it.

It's easy to get carried away with all the bells and whistles and there are several really good books on blogging, such as The Million Dollar Blog by Natasha Courtenay-Smith or The Ultimate Blogger To-Do List by Dana Fox and endless courses about all aspects of a blogger's craft to tempt you to part with your pennies.

But if you are just starting out with very little cash to spare, you can find lots of support in an excellent Facebook group - UK Bloggers.  You'll find bloggers are a friendly bunch who are always generous with their advice. Before you shell out, just ask for their very valuable advice - many of them have been blogging for years and are highly experienced.

Talking of which, if there is anything you'd like to ask, feel free to pop a question in the comments box below.

If you are thinking of taking the plunge with your own blog - try it!  You may never look back.
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Monday 29 February 2016

Does Swearing Have A Place In Blog Posts?

The other day on Facebook, there was much discussion about the aged chestnut that is the "should bloggers write for free" question.




One response in particular caught my eye.  It was basically a wall of expletives.  Brands and PRs could 'do one', the blogger said (completely in phrases beginning with F).

I have to say that whenever I come across swear words in blog posts, I find myself clicking away pretty quickly.

This is not because I am a delicate flower.  It's more because I feel vaguely let down.

Great Bloggers Are Wordsmiths


There are millions of fantastic words in the English language.  Millions.

As bloggers, shouldn't we be wordsmiths?  Shouldn't we use language to paint amazing verbal pictures?

Don't we have standards to uphold (or even create)?

Some of the sweary posts I have read have been written by parenting bloggers.

Is A Post Full Of Expletives Really Going To Engage A Brand?


That must go down very well with brands and PRs seeking to engage with a family audience.

I'm sure the "it's our blog and we write what we like" brigade will be sticking a pin in my effigy but, as they used to say in school,  "it's not big and it's not clever".

There is a type of  'bitter blogger' who specialises in venting spleen in a wry, vaguely comedic way, using language that would make a trucker blush.

And it's funny for a while.

Among the ascerbic comments, there are usually a few kernels of truth, a few good take-away points.

There's another saying which comes to mind from the old music hall days - "they're funny but they're on too long".

Do You Know Your Readers?


Now swearing might be completely appropriate for your blogging niche.  I can't for the life of me think what that niche might be but if that's what your audience enjoys then fine.

But the question is, do you really know who's reading you?

As bloggers we rely on stats, social media likes and comments. These can paint a partial picture of what our readers think.

Except that in many cases, blogs are read by other bloggers in a kind of "you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours" way.

I think, particularly if you are a parenting blogger, you should assume that you could be read by anyone of any age.

And that's where the swearing habit is risky if you want to build an engaged audience.

It may be a stereotype but I think an older, more mature audience won't welcome a blog post full of expletives.

If you're writing about family matters, your comment posts should surely reflect that.  (You wouldn't be daft enough to swear in a review post, would you?)

Listen,  I fully understand the "mummy's had a bad day, the kids are little sods and where's the corkscrew" sentiment.

But giving full verbal vent to your frustrations in purple prose makes you look a bit, well, out of control.

Have The Perfect Lifestyle Parenting Blogs Had Their Day?


I read recently that there is a backlash against parent blogs which create a perfect lifestyle - you know the kind of thing - instagram pictures curated to the last pantone, cutesy shots of the family dancing through autumnal leaves and posts about how to make your home Martha Stewart worthy.

Frankly I love these kind of posts.  And I'm not sure that the antidote to these is the bitter, sweary mummy blog focusing on how awful it is to be blessed with children especially when they will insist on behaving like children.

Still,  the great appeal of blogging is that it is a platform for expression available to all.

I'm not suggesting censorship.  I am saying that blogging is a craft which deserves respect, and care, and consideration for the feelings of the reader, whoever they may be.

And you won't find any expletives in my posts.    That much I will swear.
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Friday 26 February 2016

Why Blogging About Your Job Is Not Your Best Career Move

Just lately, there have been several instances on Facebook where bloggers have questioned whether it is wise to blog about your job.





My answer to this is a categorical NO.

I have also come across instances where an employer has caught a blogger writing sponsored posts for a competitor and demanded that the posts be removed.

Cue much "how very dare they" in tones which imply the Human Rights Act should be referred to immediately.

An Employment Contract Is Legally Binding


I am beginning to wonder whether people understand that an employment contract is, well a contract - and a legally binding one at that.

When you agree to work for a company, you agree to abide by a set of rules (theirs) in exchange for pay and benefits.

The company has a duty of care towards its employees to treat them fairly and equitably.  But, you know what?  It's a two way street.

I've read posts which seem to imply that the blogger / employee is actually doing the employer a favour just by turning up.

You cannot justify criticizing your employer on your blog because you hate the job, they don't pay you enough or you haven't been promoted.

That will get you out of the door quicker than you'd like.

Nobody Is Irreplaceable


And if you feel that you're irreplaceable - well, have you seen the UK unemployment figures lately?

I don't mean to be harsh.

I think if you work with your employer, blogging can be an extremely valuable addition to the marketing mix.

But I think we need a reality check here.

Employers DO Check You Out On Social Media


Employers and recruitment agencies will check you out on social media.  Yes they will - whether or not they are supposed to.

If you let it be known that you write a blog in your spare time, it is just human nature for your co-workers to want to check it out.

If you have written anything negative, it is also, sadly, human nature for some 'helpful' co-worker to bring it to the attention of the management.

And if you are being negative, therefore, future employers might take a dim view - particularly if you are staying in the same industry.

In Law, where I worked for 13 years, most of the partners had worked in numerous other law firms and all knew each other.

Until you reach a certain age, you don't always have the political 'smarts' either.

Let me give you an example of what I mean.

Let's say there's a particular manager you just can't get on with.  They seem to have it in for you.  You get the crappiest assignments.  Your suggestions are routinely ignored in meetings.

It would be very easy to vent your spleen in a blog post and think that you were fully justified in doing so - heck, you could even convince yourself that you are being a noble "whistleblower" and bringing the manager to book.

You Never Know Who Is Friends With Whom


What you probably don't realise is that, even if that manager seems to be deeply unpopular,  they may be best buddies with the rest of the managers, or even the CEO.

I remember a couple of senior partners in one of the law firms I worked for who, on the face of it, hated each other.

It later transpired that not only did they regularly dine together, they even went on holiday together.

The same thing with college lecturers.  You never know what goes on in the staff room, or what is said and I think there is a tendency for senior staff to stick together to protect each other's positions.

So,  after another downbeat, unmotivating, dreary day, it would be so easy to come home and blog about it, wouldn't it?

Anything you write is on the internet for ever.  Things you say now could bite you years later.

I'm assuming you've worked long and hard to get where you are.

You've probably fought off lots of competition to get your foot in the door.

But you signed a contract.

The honorable thing to do if you hate it, is find another job.

Yes it's difficult - but that's rather my point.

The RIGHT Way To Blog About Your Job


If you want to blog about your job, why not undertake some technical research or write a paper about a particular aspect of your role.  Let your manager see it and then publish with their blessing.

That way, bloggers, promotion lies.

If you want to run your employer down on your blog, so that senior management, co-workers, competitors and, even worse, clients see it, then you may find you are blogging full time quicker than you think.

Life isn't fair.  Speech may be free,  but sometimes there's a rather hefty price to pay all the same.
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Monday 1 June 2015

I'm Going To BritMums Live 2015!

Yes I'm going for the first time and I can't wait to meet many of the bloggers I've 'met' through Social Media. So, joining in with the "The I’m Going to BritMums Live 2015 Meme",  here are my answers.

Linda Hobbis & Ieuan Hobbis
Ieuan and I
Name:  Linda Hobbis

Blog:  www.motherdistracted.co.uk

Mine is a parenting / lifestyle blog aimed at midlife mums and women late to motherhood (as I was at 43 and 45).  My husband, Mat, and I live with Caitlin (7) and Ieuan (5) just outside Cardiff in a village called Dinas Powys.

Twitter ID:  @lindahobbis

Height:  5ft 6"

I'm afraid I haven't managed to go metric yet.  I am used to decimalization now though.

Hair:  Brown / blonde.  Actually nobody has seen my real hair colour for years.  It used to be the glorious red my son's is.

Eyes:  Green.

Is this your first blogging conference?

I attended BlogOnCymru earlier this year which was great fun, particularly as it involved wine and cake.  I like a conference with wine and cake.

Are you attending both days?

I am.  There is so much to learn about blogging and so many aspects to it.  It is definitely not, as I once naively thought, "keeping a bit of a diary".

What are you most looking forward to at BritMums Live 2015?

Meeting some of the lovely bloggers I chat to on Social Media and particularly bloggers in my age group. I'm particularly looking forward to talking to the Post40 Bloggers and any midlife mums like myself.

What are you wearing?

I'd like to say something at the cutting edge of fashion with an inspired use of detailing and the kind of high heels they prefer at Cannes.  Obviously this means I will be wearing my leggings and shoes I can walk in. Plus something in black, in case I need to hide.

What do you hope to gain from BritMums Live 2015?

A bit more direction for the coming year's blogging.  There has been a lot of talk lately amongst bloggers about whether blogs have a natural sell by date and how to keep things fresh.  That's something I'd like to learn more about.

Do you have any tips to pass on to others who may not have been before?

I'm a newbie so I will be wandering about looking slightly awkward - well, for the first 5 minutes anyway!

I’m going to BritMums Live


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Friday 1 May 2015

Who I Am? A Few Clues.

I'm joining in with the lovely +Rosalilium's Blog Every Day In May (#BEDM) challenge and our first task is to introduce ourselves.  

I'm wife to Mat and mum to Caitlin (7) and Ieuan (nearly 6).  I left work as Marketing Director at a Cardiff law firm in 2007 to have my kids. Caitlin was born in 2007 when I was 43 and Ieuan followed in 2009.  Being an 'older mum' is something I talk about quite a bit on this blog.  

I count myself lucky as I had a good career and then a family (probably just in time).  I'm well aware that this does not happen for everyone.  Staying fit is a bit of an obvious preoccupation so that I can keep up with 2 energetic kids. 


Linda Hobbis, Mother Distracted
Me!

I say keeping fit, I actually mean googling random illness symptoms and then driving the husband mad by asking if he thinks I've got them.

We live just outside Cardiff in Dinas Powys.  Dinas' main claim to fame is that it has its own castle (now in ruins) and was previously home to Charlotte Church. I'm English (an Essex girl actually) but we moved to Wales when I was 5 so I class myself as 'adopted Welsh' now.  It does mean that I get very confused when Wales play England at Rugby.


Caitlin & Ieuan Hobbis
Caitlin & Ieuan

I found becoming a stay at home mum a huge change from being a full time employee and to fill the gap I took up entering competitions (with quite a bit of success) and now I have a new love - blogging.


I have met and talked to so many lovely people.  There is definitely a blogging community and I've found lots of bloggers who are very generous with their help, advice and inspiration.


What else can I tell you?  Here's a few insights into the dark recesses of my muddled maternal mind.


Favourite season: Autumn. 


One of the fabulous things about being a parent is that you get the chance to relive your childhood again. I love Halloween and Bonfire Night.  My daughter's birthday is in November so that's obviously another party and then there's the glorious build up to Christmas and New Year. Actually I suspect I enjoy it all more than the kids. It's a time of year when your senses go into overdrive - the lights, the smells, the sounds of caroling, food and decorations. One of my favourite places to be at this time of year is the beauty hall in Debenhams. Call me shallow but surrounded by the floodlit best that the beauty industry can offer in glorious wrapping paper, I have palpitations calmed only by a jumbo cappuccino and chocolate muffin.


Favourite animal:  Cat

  
A cat. With the exception of a sloth, no other animal can make inertia look stylish. I'd come home to find my cat Samson sat in an arm chair wearing a smoking jacket and cradling a whisky sour and a large cigar.

Least favourite feature: Feet


I've been incredibly blessed;  the older you get, the more you realise this but if if I could change one thing it would be the size of my feet. Size 8. I ask you. That's not a foot, that's a tennis racquet.


Obessions:  Many

I love blogging and  I can be ever so slightly obsessional (I have a 'thing' about Hercule Poirot, Art Deco and lemon curd - happily not all at the same time). I also eat Hot Cross Buns all year round. Don't judge me.


Best James Bond:  Daniel Craig, then Roger Moore.


Ant or Dec:  Dec


White or Red Wine:  Red (for it's anti-ageing properties obviously)


Sweet or Savoury:  Can't live without cheese and olives.


X Factor or Britain's Got Talent:  Britain's Got Talent. I think the X Factor has really had its day


Comedian:  Russell Howard, Eddie Izzard and the marvellous Bill Bailey


Film:  Blazing Saddles, The Young Frankenstein (both Mel Brooks) and Love & Death (Woody Allen)


Book:  Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte


Music:  Jools Holland, Jamie Cullum, Jack Johnson.  Sadly the husband loves Viking Rock and a musical genre I refer to as "that ruddy din".



I'm looking forward to learning more about you!


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Saturday 19 July 2014

French Blogger Fined £2000 For Negative Restaurant Review

Ah blog reviews. The life blood of content for many a blogger, happily typing their reviews in return for a freebie and possible promotion on a brand's website. Sometimes hard to spot (no, I don't think putting a tiny asterisk alongside the name of a product really counts as disclosure) and often disappointingly incomplete in their assessment, nevertheless, personally I love to read them.



Source: www.point2.com

I'm not sure, though, that I would adapt my buying behaviour as a result of reading a blog review. I find it hard to get excited about the endless swatching on beauty blogs (stripes of product on a blogger's wrist for the uninitiated) and the discussion about tone, texture and packaging when running the gauntlet of Superdrug or Boots on a Saturday afternoon makes it depressingly clear there is little that can be truly classed as new and innovative in the field of cosmetics. It's been a long time since many of us had the time for "NOTD" (nails of the day, I kid you not) or to plan a week's worth of outfits fully accessorized with shoes and bags. (Where did those days go?!).

However, when it comes to restaurant and hotel reviews, I do take notice. And this certainly created problems for French blogger Caroline Doudet who wrote a negative review last August of a restaurant in Aquitaine in South West France. She titled her post with the name of the restaurant and "The Place To Avoid in Cap-Ferret'. Because her blog attracted over 3000 followers the judge ruled that this exacerbated the damage and ordered that the blog post title should be changed so as to be less prominent in Google's search results. Miss Doudet was ordered to pay £1200 in damages plus £800 costs.

According to today's Daily Mail (19/7/2014), the blogger said that "this creates a crime of being too highly ranked on a search engine, or of having too great an influence".  The restaurant owner said: "Maybe there were errors in the service, but this article showed in the Google search results and did my business more and more harm".

This is believed to be the first time that an unpaid blogger has had to pay damages for a negative review but, I am sure, it will not be the last.  Without seeing the post in question, it is hard to know exactly how fair (or otherwise) Miss Doudet's review was but surely any blogger worth their salt (or search engine results!) knows that reviews should be balanced and fair. I think some bloggers feel they are offering a public service by offering a scathing assessment of their meal or visit - and in some cases, this may be entirely true - however in future we may all need to do a risk assessment on the posts we publish so as to avoid putting anything potentially libelous into the public domain.

Many years in the field of Law (albeit as a marketeer) lead me to believe that it is only a matter of time before negative reviews attract judicial - and financial consequences which will surely outweigh the short lived joy of seeing follower numbers increase on blog platforms such as Bloglovin'.
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Thursday 15 May 2014

Come on Beauty Bloggers - Show Us Your Empties!

I am fascinated by beauty blogs. To me, beauty bloggers are the unsung heroes of the cosmetics industry, tirelessly reviewing (often out of their own pocket), the newest, sparkliest and maddest products that are thrown onto the shelves. If you consider how many new mascaras alone hit the shelves in a year, you can see that the costs mount up.  


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These gals love make-up and, although they may have some help from PR companies and some free products to review, in general I would take their opinion any day over the endless advertorials that populate the tabloids and the glossies.



I used to love those articles in magazines where the contents of handbags were unearthed and listed. If you are nosy, like I am, this offers endless fascination. The contents of my own bag have been scrutinized on several wine-fuelled evenings at our local, being a source of endless amusement. Why three tonnes of old tissues, a pile of Fruit Shoot plastic caps, broken crayons and multiple lipsticks all in approximately the same shade (a red which makes me look like Vampyra) should be funny, I'm not sure.  

www.idealmagazine.com

But when it comes to beauty blogs, I have two frustrations. Firstly, there don't seem to be many beauty blogs which write for my age group (50 in two weeks, if you must know) and secondly, of the vast array of products reviewed, it's often difficult to know whether those products raved about are actually used much thereafter and are truly the wonder products they often appeared to be considered.

I honestly don't know how beauty bloggers cope with the amount of products they review. What do they do with them all? I have a drawer of lipsticks and eyeshadows I've had for years. With kids, it's difficult to find the time to apply a full face of make-up in the morning. I am always last in the queue for the bathroom and usually get in there just as the kids are putting their coats on. I am more likely to throw a product away because I have become totally bored with it than I am to throw it because it's been used.

This is hardly cost-effective. I wonder how many thousands of pounds are wasted on beauty products each year - I bet it's staggering. I have seen a couple of bloggers do posts about their 'empties' - i.e. products used to the very last drop and to me, that is a far greater accolade than posts which just swatch new colours.

So I am on the hunt for bloggers who write for my age group and those who will share what they actually use and love to death.
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Thursday 12 September 2013

A Little Bit About Me [Liebster Award]

I was delighted to discover this week that my blog has been nominated for the Liebster Award by bitenomore, written by fabulous nail blogger Tracey Bellew. The Liebster award is a kind of peer to peer recognition; a way of finding new and up coming bloggers with blogs currently registering 200 followers or under.


The blogger who nominates you gives you 11 questions which you must answer and then, in your response, you must nominate another 11 blogs who have less than 200 followers and let them know you have nominated them.  The 11 blogs you nominate must receive 11 questions from you to answer.  Finally you must link back to the person who nominated you.


So, here are the questions I was asked by Tracey at  bitenomore.


1.  What inspired you to start a blog?



I've always enjoyed writing and worked in Legal Services Marketing for many years. I left work in 2007 to have my daughter Caitlin who was closely followed by my son Ieuan in 2009. I had my kids at 43 and 45 and wanted to write about my experiences with this in mind. There are lot of fabulous parent and lifestyle blogs out there, many with their own distinctive niche and I think there's a definite gap for blogs written by older parents. This is not to be ageist but I believe that 'older parenting' is a different experience and one that, despite age and maturity, many mums and dads are still not prepared for.

2. When someone comments on your posts, do you always reply?


If the comment includes a question of course but in general I acknowledge comments through Facebook or Twitter. I've learned that blogging is very much about community and many of my fellow bloggers have become good friends via social media.


3. Have you ever had any negative comments? If so how do you react?


No - and if I did I think I'd probably ignore them and if they were offensive, remove them so as not to cause offence to other readers.


4. What's your favourite season and why?


Autumn. One of the fabulous things about being a parent is that you get the chance to relive your childhood again. I love Halloween and Bonfire Night.  My daughter's birthday is in November so that's obviously another party and then there's the glorious build up to Christmas and New Year. Actually I suspect I enjoy it all more than the kids. It's a time of year when your senses go into overdrive - the lights, the smells, the sounds of caroling, food and decorations. One of my favourite places to be at this time of year is the beauty hall in Debenhams. Call me shallow but surrounded by the floodlit best that the beauty industry can offer in glorious wrapping paper, I have palpitations calmed only by a jumbo cappuccino and chocolate muffin.


5. If you could be any animal, what would you be?


A cat. With the exception of a sloth, no other animal can make inertia look stylish. I'd come home to find my cat Samson sat in an arm chair wearing a smoking jacket and cradling a whisky sour and a large cigar.


6. If you could change just one thing in your life, would you?


I've been incredibly blessed;  the older you get, the more you realise this but if if I could change one thing it would be the size of my feet. Size 8. I ask you. That's not a foot, that's a tennis racquet.


7. Do you enjoy blogging? Or has it taken over your life?


I love blogging and  I can be ever so slightly obsessional (I have a 'thing' about Hercule Poirot, Art Deco and lemon curd - happily not all at the same time). Since I'm currently a stay at home mum, (don't tell Katie Hopkins), I have plenty of time to indulge my passion. And have a bit of a flick round with a duster of course (in case the husband is reading).


8. Has anything good ever happened to you because of your blog?


It's very early days for me but I'm enjoying the new friends I am making via this hobby.


9. Sweet or Savory?


Oh that's a tricky one. Probably savoury. I love cheese and olives. They're my comfort foods.


10. Would you, or have you got a second blog?


Not till I am happy with this one. I'm a bit of a perfectionist.


11. Where do you see your blog 5 years from now?


I'd love it to be a go-to first port of call for readers each morning, with a thriving number of readers and commentators.


The 11 blogs I am nominating are:-


1.  mamaroddy84

2.  redheadbabyled
3.  rachelheller
4.  urbanalmanac
5.  twomonstersandmeeverythinginbetween
6.  beautywish
7.  thecrazyperfect
8.  welshfootymam
9.  sweetcraftiness
10. bellesnbows
11. slightgem


And my eleven questions for you all are:


1. What inspired you to start a blog?

2. What is your absolute favourite topic to blog about?
3. When someone comments on your posts, do you always reply?
4. Have you ever had any negative comments? If so how do you react?
5. What's your favourite novel?
6. What, in your view, is the best film ever made and why?
7. X Factor or Strictly - and why?
8. If you could change just one thing in your life, would you?
9. What's the best thing about blogging - and the worst?
10. Has anything good ever happened to you because of your blog?
11. Where do you see your blog 5 years from now?

Please comment back with a link so I know you have accepted the award and can read your answers. Can't wait to see what you all come up with - and thanks once again to Tracey.
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